regarding the wedding post

[bandekhuda]

I am not sure where to start but most weddings that i do attend well there is drinking at least for the men i am not so sure about women bec i have never seen a drunk woman at these weddings...there is dancing and music...and if tell my cousin that i am not coming to her wedding she will be very upsad bec i have only started practicing islam for the past four months...she will difintely say it's a phase i am going through which sometimes I myself believe that i am but maybe i am not i really dont know

[ins321]

:salam:

Just tell her that Islam strictly forbids alcohol, and to get rid of it, along with the music. Then you will come.

[Uzzy]

or maybe you could learn how to dance and blend in?

lol only joking.


But you should tell her to remove the alcohol for her own benefit, because if someone gets drunk they could potentially ruin the whole wedding. The music would also contribute to people getting drunk.

just my 2 pence :)

[ins321]

Also, would she get the gunna for providing the alcohol which other people get drunk with? That would be ALOT of gunna.

[alfatiha]

how about inviting her for dinner a day after and celebrate among yourselves just for making it up. for me that would be much more memorable.

[sudoku]

:salam:

If she thinks this is a phase, then you need to take a stand and show her that it is not a phase.

We had stopped going to mixed weddings, even if there was no music or alcohol, and we dont go to our relatives weddings either if they are mixed. if your not going to go to an aquaintances wedding because it has haraam stuff going on, the same thing will go for your relatives... otherwise people will say that you different beliefs when it comes to family.