Need advice

[BsdGangster]

Salam

My ex wife and her mother are wahhabi's. May Allah guide them. I havn't seen my son for 10 months because of them moving somewhere unknown in a different part of the country.

What should I do on this matter. Should I remain content or should I seek legal help?

I am in australia and women have more rights than men regarding children.

[BsdGangster]

I wrote the complete story of how this happened in the revert section.

Reverts account of 2006-2007

Salam

[Gulabo]

Salams Bro,

May Allah ease ur problems soon amin.

Bro can i ask which city are you in?? So i may try to guide you to the right people or islamic institutions who may be able to help you inshalah. ??

Thanks

[BsdGangster]

I am in Perth.

I'v asked many people their advice was the legal path.

[Gulabo]

Salams Bro,

Well, I can suggest a few ideas to you that may be of help:

1. Go seek help from your local masjids and Imams. Seek their opinion about the issue. The Islamic as well as legal side of things. Then match the islamic rights and duties to the legal ones.

2. After that go talk to legal aid or any legal help. Ask around what the fathers rights are in this case. I am very sure the father has right to see thier child. As this happened to someone I know. The father has a right to see thier children.

3. Then take whatever steps you feel are necessary for reconciliation and solving this problem. Start with having middle persons helping you out informally eg local islamic elders, her family, your family etc. Inform your wife about the consequences of legal issues that it may drag on and on if you proceed with the legal cases etc. So tell her its better solved peacefully and privately rather than going through the legal mess.

4. I wish you all the best. keep us posted on how things are.


:)

ws.

[suhailp]

The one how constantly makes Istighfaar (ask Allah for forgiveness) Allah will make for him a way out of all difficulties, get rid of his sorrows, and sustain him from places beyond his imagination. (A Hadith of Tirmithi).

[BsdGangster]

subhanallah.

Good advice

[shajratutooba]

There is a blessed time ie the last part of every night when Allah is all too near to His ibaad calling out to those who are awake and interested in directing their applications for help; the solutions and acceptance of duas is ensured at this time; I suggest you avail this opportunity and ask help from Him who put you in this test; He is the best to guide than any of His creations.
May your troubles be eased at the earnest.:)

[Gulabo]

Salams,
alhamdulilah.

Nice advice from all. mashalah..
Hope it all works out bro.

:)

[clover]

Salam

My ex wife and her mother are wahhabi's. May Allah guide them. I havn't seen my son for 10 months because of them moving somewhere unknown in a different part of the country.

What should I do on this matter. Should I remain content or should I seek legal help?

I am in australia and women have more rights than men regarding children.

Brother, I am in Australia also - you must seek help, that is just wrong. You have a right to see your child and it has a right to know its father.

[BsdGangster]

They've spread stories about me turning from islam and becoming devient because I think very differently from them. They have strong support from the salafi community and I get banned from Aussie forums if I mention it.

The devient part of me is not devient it Is just following people of tasawwuf which I believe is sunnah.

What kind of help do you recommend I get? Legal help?
I am in personal finance troubles to be honest and require a reliable car to see a lawyer I was given.
My car wheels broken need to get it fixed. Insha-Allah allah will help me

[clover]

Keep your heart strong, hearts are in the hands of Allah swt - do not worry brother, make dua and put your trust in Allah swt. See if you can go to Legal Aid?

[BsdGangster]

ALhamdulilah

My heart is ok, there is pain from not seeing the son and slight anger because of their rudeness but it isn't something I am unable to deal with at the moment.

There is alot more to the story of what has happened in the new muslims section called a reverts account of 2006-2007

I suggest you read it to see what happens with my attempts to see my son.

Assalamu alaikum

[clover]

I read it, and I posted the answer there.