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[Najla El-Oubitia]

Assalamum Alaikum to all!!

I ran across this article in hopes of finding a great Muslim Madressa anywhere
in the world.

Parenting teenagers in this era of time is a great test from Allah. The West
is trying very hard to destroy our children. The Television, Networking, cellular
phones and other computer games are seemingly more interesting than ISLAM!!
Why is that? You can raise a child as best you can in a totally Islamic environment; give them knowledge, keep the tv away from them, no cell phone
or video games unless they are doing extra special work. Islamic schools, Honors classes. EVERYTHING!!! They still got their issues. Can anyone
help me with some parenting skills for teens ages 14 and 15 who are very
intelligent; Love Islam; yet, can see the outside world as an interest.:o

[Najla El-Oubitia]

Assalamum Alaikum to all!!

I ran across this article in hopes of finding a great Muslim Madressa anywhere
in the world.

Parenting teenagers in this era of time is a great test from Allah. The West
is trying very hard to destroy our children. The Television, Networking, cellular
phones and other computer games are seemingly more interesting than ISLAM!!
Why is that? You can raise a child as best you can in a totally Islamic environment; give them knowledge, keep the tv away from them, no cell phone
or video games unless they are doing extra special work. Islamic schools, Honors classes. EVERYTHING!!! They still got their issues. Can anyone
help me with some parenting skills for teens ages 14 and 15 who are very
intelligent; Love Islam; yet, can see the outside world as an interest.:o


I'm not real sure how to use this message board; however, I am so greatly
appreciative of all the comments provided for me. I love this site and it has been so beneficial to me. All of the articles I read and the advise you give all of us is genuine and I really, really appreciate it. May Allah reward all of you for your help and your efforts in trying to provide the best information possible. I has been meaningful and very useful. Jazak Allah Khairan.:lol:

[Ibn_Harith]

Wa alaikum assalam,

Sister I can't give you anything on parenting skills (I mean I'm not too older than your teenagers themselves) but one advice is to make a lot of sincere dua that Allah guides and protects your children.
I've seen first hand how effective it can be.

[bint abdul hameed]

oh and yes this article is completely right!!! The more newer technology gets, the worse kids get, T.V., Computer, Movies, everything, we seriously need to build a good clean environment for our children! Who am I to say this, I bet Im just the age of your children, but Alhamdulillah Allah has saved me from this stuff, I used to watch a ll this, and ever since I left it, I have changed! It all has a HUGE impact on kids!

[Najla El-Oubitia]

oh and yes this article is completely right!!! The more newer technology gets, the worse kids get, T.V., Computer, Movies, everything, we seriously need to build a good clean environment for our children! Who am I to say this, I bet Im just the age of your children, but Alhamdulillah Allah has saved me from this stuff, I used to watch a ll this, and ever since I left it, I have changed! It all has a HUGE impact on kids!

Alhumdulilah!!! I just love all of you young people on this sunniforum.com;
Masha'Allah, I am so impressed with all of the comments I am receiving to
my concerns. Jazak Allah Khairan; and may Allah reward YOU all.

I will make lots of Dua and you all make dua for me as well. I am blessed to
have found so many marvelous, sincere muslims on this site.

May Allah Bless You!!!!!:o :lol:

[Najla El-Oubitia]

Wa alaikum assalam,

Sister I can't give you anything on parenting skills (I mean I'm not too older than your teenagers themselves) but one advice is to make a lot of sincere dua that Allah guides and protects your children.
I've seen first hand how effective it can be.

Alhumdulilah!!! This message you send is most gracious; May Allah reward you for just thinking of me and my children. I appreciate this comment more than ever. Dua does help and I will continue; it's just when you are human, even though you try and be patient; You get really anxious due to this MAD HUMAN DRAMA we are living in this era. It was so easy when I was a young girl; even being a muslim in a NON_Muslim community:lol: :lol: ; I survived and met many challenges. However, I guess we are really closer to the hour because things; all things are so difficult now. Allah always answers your prayers IF YOU ARE SINCERE!!!! I will make dua and you make dua for me. Jazak Allah Khairan!!!:D