Mureed of Hadthrat Moulana Ishmail Wadee D.B - Please help

[DJzacs]

Salaam brothers, Hope somebody who can help private message me regarding my question

I have been Bait to a sheikh for over 1 and half years now, i have attended the sheikhs, khalifa's zikr majlis few times after i was bait to him , however since then my imaan has been up and down, and weakened. I did bait to my sheikh, as i knew i was going to unviersity, and it was going to be veyr difficult for me to stay strong on imaan due to the bad effects of the environment, and company. Therefore, since like a year, i have not met my sheikh, or khalifa because i always thought i will meet very soon but i didnt, until a time came that i thought what will my sheikh think that i have not come to see him, and i always thought that i should not see him as i have not fully obeyed to the zikr asghaar prescribed to the way it should have.

Therefore, i have not kept in touch with my sheikh and the sheikh's khalifa who i should contact as my sheikh is very old.

I need advice as to what i should do, i dont feel right due to myself not obeying. Is writing a letter regarding my spiritual condition etc a good idea, or should i physically go see my sheikh's khalifa.

Please brothers help me, i need it,

And Also make dua from Allah S.W.T to keep me steadfast on imaan

Reply back please brothers sincerely or private message,

also need someone who i coudl ocntact online regardign any issues, online easily

[omar2006]

http://annoor.wordpress.com/2008/12/24/rights-of-the-shaikh-a-must-read-for-all-those-who-have-a-shaikh-2/

[DJzacs]

I am asking regarding a specific question, my personal situation. Not generally regarding the sheikh's right. Could any one else help me out here, thanks

thanks omar anyway

[London786]

are you a mureed of maulana ismail wadee? Which khalifah are you linked too? Which university do you go? Also it would be better if you go to maulana ismail wadee himself...or if you know his son sufi tahir saheb the teacher at bury....or ask permission from hadhrat ismail wadee to get a connection with sufi tahir saheb.........and also try to go jamaat........

[DJzacs]

I am linked with Mouana Yusuf Ali, as i said in my post, i said i dont feel right, as i have not as of yet fully obeyed what i was supposed to what i agreed on due to difficulties at university, thats why i asked regarding letter...

Please read what i have wrote brothers, then reply, understand from my point

jazak Allah

[The Fake Shaykh]

I am linked with Mouana Yusuf Ali, as i said in my post, i said i dont feel right, as i have not as of yet fully obeyed what i was supposed to what i agreed on due to difficulties at university, thats why i asked regarding letter...

Please read what i have wrote brothers, then reply, understand from my point

jazak Allah

asalamu alykum brother, its no big deal what you are feeling, many brothers who are bayat to a shaykh dont carry out the prescribed adhkar,read what is wriiten below and you'll it will answer your question inshallah:

Sheikh-Mureed Relationship

As mentioned earlier, this is a physician-patient relationship. The mureed tells/writes about his spiritual ailments seeking remedy. He has to be explicit and candid about his condition. Hiding vital information leads to nowhere and eventually mureed himself is the looser. The Sheikh reviews mureed’s condition, taking into account his spiritual ailments/deficiencies, physical and working requirements and environment. He then prescribes a treatment plan.

There may be multiple components of this plan. The mureed has to follow this plan unconditionally. If he faces difficulties in doing so he has to inform the Sheikh. And then follow the next advice. The doctor may be the best in the whole world. His diagnosis may be 100% accurate. The treatment prescribed and made available may be the finest. With all this in place, if Mr. Mureed decides not to use it or use it partially, (using his brains) how can a cure be imagined, less achieved? A sincere mureed’s duty is to inform the Sheikh of his present condition. That is, he reviews his daily activities, dealings and intentional thoughts. He analyzes them. He looks for any blame worthy traits that may be active in his intentions and actions or any praise worthy states that are deficient. He describes the actual case scenarios and asks assistance from Sheikh for diagnosis and treatment.

He follows the recommendations of Sheikh and reports back. Adjustment may be made, treatment fined tuned and tailored accordingly. This process continues for a considerable period of time till a healthy spiritual state is reached, that is, achievement of nisbat-e-batini(a sustainable mutual relationship with Allah swt). As every patient’s condition is different so is the treatment plan. It is this individual attention and instruction which gives Tasawwuf a unique effectiveness in bringing about a permanent, durable and wholesome change for a complete Islamic life in its fullest sense.

http://ashrafiya.blogspot.com/2004/09/sheikh-mureed-relationship.html

[DJzacs]

Jazak Allah , thanks for your help, was helpful, anyone here who is bayah to a sheikh, and is learned enough to help me on a personal basis by the use of email or msn, would be greta, please private message me

thanks

[The Fake Shaykh]

Jazak Allah , thanks for your help, was helpful, anyone here who is bayah to a sheikh, and is learned enough to help me on a personal basis by the use of email or msn, would be greta, please private message me

thanks

bro i would advice you to contact brother london786 he would be ideal person to contact, he is close to the family of molana ismail vadee saab and is clued up with tasawuf amongst other things ;) , im sure if you give him a shout he will contact you inshallah, im not sure the private mesaging works so ask the moderaters to ask brother london786 for his email to be passed to you

[DJzacs]

Fake Shaykh thanks a lot for your reply and help, its difficult to udnerstand why the normal private message cannot be sent on here, how do i contact the moderator, or which moderator, please help

Brother london786 , please get in touch with me on private message if you can thanks, my email is masta_mcs@yahoo.com

[The Fake Shaykh]

bro il send your email to brother london786 and inshallah he will contact you soon, you can edit your post and delete your email if you want,

ive sent it bro

[ahlezikr]

:salam:

Do not worry brother. Your present frame of mind tells me of your yearning for Islah. Just go, a Shaykh does not reprimand. Shaytan is trying to take you down Lane 12 and then out of the circuit. Just go and tell him your situation. Speaking to bro London is also good. Do not speak to anyone else or act upon their advice. It will be spiritual harmful for you.

[DJzacs]

Jazak Allah brother, what do you mean do not speak to anyone else? Yes i have wrote a letter to my sheikh regarding my condition. As io dont have the courage yet to see him personally , thanks

[ahlezikr]

:salam:

Very good, the fear you have of meeting him is natural, but you should develop love for him and see him soon. Maulana Ilyas (rah) used to stay 3 days in I'tikaf before meeting his Shaikh Maulana Rashid Ahmad Gangohi (rah). He would do this and make dua that Allah Ta'ala does not show his faults to his Shaikh.
Your Islah will be done best by your Shaikh. SO with regards to prescriptions for spiritual ailments, speak only to your Shaikh. Otherwise you can speak to anyone. If someone says do such and such a mujahada or zikr to get you out of this, dont do it. Just to what your Shaikh says.

Make dua for me. May Allah Ta'ala accept you.

[SY1]

Assalamu Alaikum

Bro his khadim khaas - also his khalifa is a very good person

Just attend the dhikr majlis which is held on Tues and Fri as far as i know and gell in. Explain to him the situation and he will be sort it all out. Most probably he will say dont worry and no need to tell Maulana Wadee anything, just start practicing again.

[DJzacs]

salaam sy1 are you from blackburn, and do you go to the majlis, if so mail me on masta_mcs@yahoo.com, what do you mean sy1 "his khadim khaas"