Does it mean divorce?

[Sara001]

Aoa brothers and sisters,
My husband was unhappy about our marriage situation and was telling me how I would be happier with someone else. So I asked him “So you'd rather I am with someone else?” he replied “yes”. Now I checked later and found that the correct grammatical form of this sentence would have been “So you'd rather I were with someone else?”. Does this sentence have any effect on my marriage?
Later I asked him “So you would divorce me?” to which my husband replied “Yes” also. Does this effect my marriage?

please reply asap i'm very very worried. fatwas on the issue will be much appreciated.

[muslimsister101]

From what you have said this would NOT mean divorce.

And Allah knows best.

[abuhajira]

In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.

The statements which you have mentioned do not constitute talāq.

And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best

Faisal bin Abdul Hameed (Abuhajira),
Student Darul Iftaa
Montréal, Canada

Checked and Approved by,
Mufti Ebrahim Desai.

[tak]

Divorce related matters should be asked to muftis directly, not on a forum as it's a serious matter where no mistake is allowed.

what you said is right ,
but in this case sister sara001 get reply from mufti sahib(mufti abuhajira).....

[Sara001]

Thankyou everyone for the reply jazakAllah!

[Sara001]

In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.

The statements which you have mentioned do not constitute talāq.

And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best

Faisal bin Abdul Hameed (Abuhajira),
Student Darul Iftaa
Montréal, Canada

Checked and Approved by,
Mufti Ebrahim Desai.

thankyou brother! by the statements do you mean both the correct and the incorrect grammatical forms? and would it be possible to get a signed and stamped copy of this fatwa?

[The Fake Shaykh]

In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.

The statements which you have mentioned do not constitute talāq.

And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best

Faisal bin Abdul Hameed (Abuhajira),
Student Darul Iftaa
Montréal, Canada

Checked and Approved by,
Mufti Ebrahim Desai.

Masha'allah your officially a Mufti now, may allah:taala: increase you in knowledge

[Sara001]

i have been so upset over this issue, i forgot to mention something else that we had said during this conversation,
my husband was saying that if things remain like this than he would call up the elders and reach on some "decision" regarding our relationship, he further mentioned that he would feel better if i was happy with someone else than unhappy in his nikah. I said later that i was so unlucky that my husband is talking about divorcing me, to which he replied that he could not even think of the word divorce, so i said to him that how else could i be with someone else? after this he agreed that he was talking about divorcing me. now could you please tell me if this conversation when added to the previous would have any effect on our marriage.
brother @abuhajira i would be forever thankful if you could give me a ruling on this. please im very upset :( and scared

[Sara001]

if i could get a fatwa on this, please :(

[abuhajira]

:salam:

For a stamped written fatwa please send the exact question through email to admin@daruliftaa.net with a request for a stamped fatwa. InshAllah they will send you one.

You do not need to worry about anything sister. Please send the email.

:ws:

[Sara001]

:salam:

For a stamped written fatwa please send the exact question through email to admin@daruliftaa.net with a request for a stamped fatwa. InshAllah they will send you one.

You do not need to worry about anything sister. Please send the email.

:ws:
jazakAllah brother i would do that inshaAllah, but could you please reply to my last post first? i am sorry for bothering you but this has got me very upset.

[Saqqib_Ali]

am i the only one to notice what the husband said is in the future tense and not the present, i.e. only an intention.

I'm sure every woman knows that if she doesn't fulfill her duties she can potentially get divorced, if the husband reminds the woman of this, how is this supposed to change anything?

[abuhajira]

:salam: br. Saqib,

Please refrain from discussing in this section. It is reserved for Hanafi QnA. If you have a link to a fatwa, you may post it.

@Sister

The statements in post #9 will not constitute talaq either.

Wallahu A'lam

:ws:

[Sara001]

jazakAllah thankyou very much!

[Sara001]

:salam: br. Saqib,

Please refrain from discussing in this section. It is reserved for Hanafi QnA. If you have a link to a fatwa, you may post it.

@Sister

The statements in post #9 will not constitute talaq either.

Wallahu A'lam

:ws:
brother could i request this fatwa stamped and signed along with the last one when i request it at the address you provided?

[abuhajira]

:salam:

Please make one whole question and send it in the email inshAllah.

:ws: