Apparantly the prophet peace be upon him..made it haram??..Though I am finding this diff to beleive..is this true?
Is it haram for a man to please his wife?
Apparantly the prophet peace be upon him..made it haram??..Though I am finding this diff to beleive..is this true?
Please give reference to this appearent saying of the Nabi (saw)
I personally have never come accross such a saying
also indicate whether by "please" you mean, intimicy or nafsaani!!
The question does not make sense at all.
Read the last part of this long, beautiful article by our dear shaykh zulfiqar...
http://www.tasawwuf.org/writings/ser...tbat_onev1.htm
Do we see such men amougst us?
Note: Print the above, great read...
sister Hasina please post the hadeeth etc where it is stated? as far as i know Rasulullahwas the best to his wives out of all mankind!
Would that I had the wings of Gabriel to bear me aloft
To the Lord of the Throne~ Heart Song, Talib al Habib
assalamu alaikum
couples has to fullfill all their needings. when wife calls her hubby to bed, man has to go, same for ladies, too. It is wajib.
massalammah
off course not, i think i know the ayah u are reffering to, u are misinterpreting it.
O Prophet! Why holdest thou to be forbidden that which Allah has made lawful to thee? Thou seekest to please thy consorts. But Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful. 66:1
is that it?
As Salaam Alaikum
Apparently it seems like Sr Hasina is referring to this verse because that is the only verse which comes in that meaning.
If that is the case then it is not a rule which is general rather it means that one shouldn't make Halal things Haraam just for the sake of ones wife, and this is a known rule in the Shariah.
It is also known that pleasing ones spouse is an act of Sadaqa so much so that feeding ones spouse is Sadaqa.
Wallahu Alam
Abu Zaid Uthman Bin Mahmood
Just asking, forgive me if I am wrong, but is there a Hadith that said he had the ability of 30 men, or something like that? Again, sorry if I am mistaken.
"The only religion accepted by God is Submission". "Anyone, the Jews, the Christians, the Sabians, anyone who;
1. Believes in God 2. Believes in the Last Day, 3. Lives a righteous life, has nothing to fear nor will they grieve." I am whatever religion you want to call me.
As Salaam Alaikum
Yes, there is a Hadeeth in Bukhari in the chapter of Ghusl (Bathing).
Volume 1, Book 5, Number 268:
Narrated Qatada:
Anas bin Malik said, "The Prophet used to visit all his wives in a round, during the day and night and they were eleven in number." I asked Anas, "Had the Prophet the strength for it?" Anas replied, "We used to say that the Prophet was given the strength of thirty (men)." And Sa'id said on the authority of Qatada that Anas had told him about nine wives only (not eleven).
Jazaak Allahu Khair
Abu Zaid Uthman Bin Mahmood
As stated by Sh. AbuZaid, pleasing one's wife (and vice versa) is an encouraged and blessed act. Spouses should strive to not only show but truly have love and mercy for the other all the time and attempt to please the other whenever possible (without overlooking other obligations and making Halal things Haram).
Allah knows best.
Wassalam,
Ziad
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