There is this unwritten but well spoken rule in Tasawuff of obeying the Sheikh without asking questions.
Like i was once told that if one is asked to pray on cloth soaked with pig's blood he shud do it.
Sheikh appears to command each and every aspect of mureed's life, personal, family, job etc.
But i was just wondering how much is too much. Specially after knowing this incident.
A girl married newly by her parents to a nice gentleman. The girl is follwing a Sheikh and so are the parents of the girl. The girl tried relentlessly for his husband to become a follower of the same Sheikh, but he refused. He did not follow anyone. So one day she says, she cannot live with him anymore if he is not a follower of her Sheikh and gets a divorce and later marries another person who is "peer bhai".
What does Fiqh/tasawuff say about this.