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    Default Keep on sinning What should i do?

    Salams everyone
    I am kind of confused how I keep sinning and I have talked to alot of muslims who tell me to just repent....in my mind i know what i have done was a mjor sin but i still did .knowing that i will be punished for it...however it didnt keep me from doing it...i have asked Allah to guide me and protect me but i guess i am a very weak person ...what's really funny the sin i am doing makes me feel good for maybe a day then i feel like s### and want to repent...maybe i dont deserve to be a muslim even though i was born into a muslim family and i know that islam is the best religion in the whole wide world..why cant i do it


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    Salaam sister

    Ukhti do not be dispondent, this is a sign of weakness, when i read ur post i seen a muslim sister with the wealth of imaan as this is a sister who is actually concerned about her deen and i believe this is a massive sign of imaan.

    Akh we must remeber that Allah (SWT) is Ar Rahman and Ar Rahim, it is mentioned in a Hadith QUdsi that Allah (SWT) said


    "My mercy prevails over my wrath."

    It was related by Muslim (also by al-Bukhari, an-Nasa'i and Ibn Majah).

    From this we can gather that if you were sincere with your repentance and have a sincere intention not to do the act again then allah will forgive as the first hadith in Bukhari metions that 'All actions are based upon the intention'

    May Allah (SWT) guide us all

    And Allah Knows best

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    keep asking Allah for forgiveness. Allah loves his slaves who turn and repent to him. Make sure you are sincere. at least u know u are doing wrong thats main thing and BUILD on it.

    Look at those ppl sinning who arent even bothered?? or dont care. thats different. do lots of good actions to improve your imaan whilst u are in weakness and inshAllah you will improve your situation and Allah knows best.
    "The Muslim is the one who reforms himself, the Hypocrite is the one who finds constant faults in others" -
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    Salaam

    Words of wisdom Vol. 4 by Hazrat Abu Anees Muhammad Barkat Ali (QSA):

    '3497. In answer to the question: State the supreme attribute of Allah the almighty!

    Sattaar al Uyub (the coverer of human failings).
    If the Lord did not hide the misdeeds of His creatures, they would all drown. They would have no grace and no honour.
    He sees, hears and knows, but He does not warn. Nor does He take action (against the sinner). Instead He forgives at the slightest repentance....

    What would come to pass on the sacred heart of the chief of Allah's creation, Pride of all beings (SAW), when the deeds of the Ummah are presented to the Holy Prophet (SAW)! If anyone came to know of it, he would suffocate and die straight away.

    3498. O my youth! May none of your deeds sadden your master, your comforter, the Holy Prophet (SAW), may my soul be sacrificed for him.

    3499. Learn it by heart that this speech of yours and these acts of yours are to be presented to your master (SAW).

    3500. I wish you had burnt to ashes in Hell and had become nothing, but you would not have presented to him (SAW) such like deeds.'

    I suggest writing the bit in bold on a massive sheet of paper and sticking it on your wall as a reminder. That should work .

    wasalaam.
    "Our mission is three fold:

    1. The remembrance of Allah
    2. The invitation to and propagation of Islam
    3. The selfless service to creation

    We are not to engage in the 4th in addition to the 3 above"


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    rahma of Allah is open for anyone .

    Dont give up

    recite Quran and give sadaqah and try to invite others to ALLAH.

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    Keep on sinning what should i do?
    keep on asking for forgiveness..Allah is the Most forgiving Most Merciful. Donot despair of Allah's Mercy.
    'When i command you about something pertaining to your religion, do accept it for i do not attribute lies to Allah and when I'm expressing my own personal opinion, keep in mind that I am merely human being in this regard.'
    --Prophet Muhammed (p.b.u.h)--from Sahih Muslim--


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    Allah says in the Quran:



    If any one does evil or wrongs his own soul but afterwards seeks Allah's forgiveness, he will find Allah Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful.

    [4:110]
    "If you are able, keep your heart from morning till night and from night till morning free from malice towards anyone." (Bukhari)

    -Ae Ishq e Nabi (s)-

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    Repetitive Repentance?

    Answered by Shaykh Gibril F Haddad


    Q.

    There are a couple of major sins which I can't stop doing. I repent.. and then I end up doing it again. Again I build up the will power to stop... but again I end up committing the sins. I can't seem to stop and I've got to the stage where I'm finding it harder to repent, incase I end up doing it again. Plus I'm lacking the will power. What should I do?


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    Wa `alaykum as-Salam:

    Allah Most High promised high levels to the repentant and He mentioned that the Throne-bearing angels make repentance for them also. And the Prophet, upon him peace, gave us glad tidings with regards to the believer's sins precisely because they lead to repentance. Therefore continue to repent.

    Finding it harder to repent is because you still trust in yourself and find it humiliating. This is what the ego hates and it is a good sign for redoubling repentance. A broken heart is better than a pleased one.

    Sin or no sin we despair in ourselves: "The whole matter consists in seeing yourself as a disobedient servant without a single good deed" (Shaykh Ibrahim al-Dusuqi). Our hope is all taken up in Allah: {Say: O my servants who have transgressed against their souls. Despair not of the Mercy of Allah: for Allah forgives all sins: He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful} (39:53).

    We should not divinize our sins. They have no power over us and millions of them can be erased in one instant of sincerity accepted by Allah. We should look for that instant. Where else than in repentance? It is our stairwell, if the angels were to envy us it would be for that.

    Will power is built up by habit over time. Change your routine for a few weeks. Do something new and leave something out. One of the Shaykhs said, if it is too hard to clear the garbage, build a bridge over it and move on. This is good advice.

    Similarly, Salat over time bears the fruit described in the blessed verse: {Prayer restrains from shameful and unjust deeds} (29:45). In time, we should not get stuck forever at the station of weakness.

    Invoke blessings on the Prophet together with saying Astaghfirullah x100 daily. Make it incumbent upon yourself to do "something special" for Allah Most High.

    The Prophet, upon him peace, promised special help for the repentant sinners and so we should take him to witness and use his means just as we consult one for help over problems, or more. The key in this is to invoke much blessings on him at all times.

    Ibn `Umar relates: I was sitting with the Prophet, Allah's blessings upon him, when Harmala ibn Zayd al-Ansari of the Banu Haritha tribe came to him. He sat in front of the Messenger of Allah, Peace be upon him, and said: "Messenger of Allah, belief is here" - and he pointed to his tongue - "and hypocrisy is here" - and he pointed to his heart - "and I don't make dhikr of Allah except little." The Prophet remained silent. Harmala repeated his words, whereupon the Prophet seized Harmala's tongue by its extremity and said: "O Allah, give him a truthful tongue and a thankful heart, and grant him to love me and to love those who love me, and turn his affairs towards good." Harmala said: "Messenger of Allah, I have two brothers who are hypocrites; I was with them just now. Shall I not point them out to you [so you will pray for them]?" The Prophet said: "Whoever comes to us in the way you have come, we shall ask forgiveness for them as we asked forgiveness for you; and whoever keeps to this path, Allah becomes his protector."

    Abu Nu`aym narrated it in Hilyat al-Awliya. Ibn Hajar said in al-Isaba (2:2 #1659): "Its chain of transmission is acceptable and Ibn Mandah also narrated it. We have narrated the same through Abu al-Darda' in the Fawa'id of Hisham ibn `Ammar."

    May Allah grant us the same four attributes he granted to that fortunate sinner and extend to us His protection against what we hate and fear.

    Hajj Gibril


    source:http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.a...=1675&CATE=101
    "If you are able, keep your heart from morning till night and from night till morning free from malice towards anyone." (Bukhari)

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    i do have the same problems

    When i listen to Ulama, i promise myself to be a better muslim, but when im alone , i can not help sinning

    Society is really corrupted. may Allah subhanahu wa taala help all of us Ameen.


    Striving against our evil soul (naft) is our jihad now.

    Reciting more Quran and salawat on Rasulullah are some basic solutions, Allah taala always knows the best, He subhanahu wa taala willed us to be a muslim and born in a muslim family. alhamdulillah. Allah subhanahu wataala loves us.Rasulullah cried for us, we are muslims this is the best and biggest nima (bounty) for us alhamdulillah

    حسبي ربي جل الله ما في قلبي غير الله نور محمد صلي الله لا اله الا الله

    جئت اليك من ديار اولياء الله وانا مجرم من أمتك اشفعني يا رسول الله


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    On the authority of Anas (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) say:

    "Allah the Almighty said:

    O son of Adam, so long as you call upon Me and ask of Me, I shall forgive you for what you have done, and I shall not mind. O son of Adam, were your sins to reach the clouds of the sky and were you then to ask forgiveness of Me, I would forgive you. O son of Adam, were you to come to Me with sins nearly as great as the earth and were you then to face Me, ascribing no partner to Me, I would bring you forgiveness nearly as great as it."


    It was related by at-Tirmidhi (also by Ahmad ibn Hanbal). Its chain of authorities is sound.
    "If you are able, keep your heart from morning till night and from night till morning free from malice towards anyone." (Bukhari)

    -Ae Ishq e Nabi (s)-

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