My point still stands Noor, that differing environments which we live in, will, of course have a bearing of how the effort is carried out. Like when a jamaat comes in our mosque, even local, we sit down and when we go meet the brothers in the locality, we make sure the mutakalim, knows the full background of who he is speaking to. Having said that, if people were not hard on me, then i would probably be still drowning in the worries of the dunya with no worries for the akhirah.
I totally agree with you that is why I mentioned Pakisati and women. Anyways i love tabligis, can`t we comment on them based on our personal observation, I mean they are wonderful but no one is perfect. Wassalaam