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[Maripat]

So what exactly do you do on a khurooj, invite people to Islam?

It is for calling Muslims to Mosque rather than calling others to Islam.

[umairel]

It is for calling Muslims to Mosque rather than calling others to Islam.

seems to be a regular victim of jamat, do you live close to masjid?

[Maripat]

seems to be a regular victim of jamat, do you live close to masjid?

for providing the shoulder.

On the better side they have reduced their expectations from me!

[umairel]

On the better side they have reduced their expectations from me!

you are lucky, or may be members in your masjid having less patience.
i am continually using 'topee'(sometime genuine reason) whenever seh-roza jamat is forming, but they still expecting me to go for 4 months soon
how i can break their expectations?
(I don't want to annoy them)

[FususAlHikam]

Does time spent on SF count as time spent in khurooj? If yes then alhamdulillah I am doing well over the minimum 2.5 hour requirement.

[Salman_Hanafi]

you are lucky, or may be members in your masjid having less patience.
i am continually using 'topee'(sometime genuine reason) whenever seh-roza jamat is forming, but they still expecting me to go for 4 months soon
how i can break their expectations?
(I don't want to annoy them)

tell them you have sheikh you have to give time to, or you are busy with some other deeni activity, they'll understand for sure...

[FususAlHikam]

My friend was stuck in India for 4 months a couple of years ago. Now when anyone tries to tashkeel him he says I just did 4 months in India a couple of years ago Im gonna tashkeel you for 4 months - they run away.

[Maripat]

you are lucky, or may be members in your masjid having less patience.
i am continually using 'topee'(sometime genuine reason) whenever seh-roza jamat is forming, but they still expecting me to go for 4 months soon
how i can break their expectations?
(I don't want to annoy them)

Their patience?
Now patience is amongst the most potent medicines to fetch you Jannah.
And they have got it in loads.
Boy, I was thinking that it will never end. But, , it did end.
And silly of me that I did not use the valid excuse that I devote lots of time with my Shaikh. The same amount of time they demand on daily basis.
What worked for me was the Dawah work (not Tabligh).
When we stepped up the Dawah work then special Jama-'ats were dispatched to our Mosque to arrest the Decline and Fall of RE (Reneged Errants).
By now they are convinced that I am a gone case.
And thus they are living happily ever since.
Ameen.

[faizanakram99]

@umairel

you are lucky, or may be members in your masjid having less patience.
i am continually using 'topee'(sometime genuine reason) whenever seh-roza jamat is forming, but they still expecting me to go for 4 months soon
how i can break their expectations?
(I don't want to annoy them)

Well you can break their expectations...its very easy!
Just go for 4 months...much easier indeed..isnt it?
@Maripat

Their patience?
Now patience is amongst the most potent medicines to fetch you Jannah.
And they have got it in loads.
Boy, I was thinking that it will never end. But, , it did end.
And silly of me that I did not use the valid excuse that I devote lots of time with my Shaikh. The same amount of time they demand on daily basis.
What worked for me was the Dawah work (not Tabligh).
When we stepped up the Dawah work then special Jama-'ats were dispatched to our Mosque to arrest the Decline and Fall of RE (Reneged Errants).
By now they are convinced that I am a gone case.
And thus they are living happily ever since.
Ameen.

i guess u are a good friend of brother umairel...so how can u leave him alone...u should join him for 4 months...

[sudoku]

Keep on topic please, otherwise we'll get bickering even in this thread.