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    During the third century Hijri, the Qaadi (judge) of Rayy and Ahwaaz, Musa bin Ishaaq, sat to adjudicate people's disputes. Among the litigants was a woman who claimed five hundred dinars Mahr from her husband.

    The husband denied the claim.

    The Qaadi said to the husband, "Bring your witnesses."

    The husband said, "I have brought them."

    The Qaadi said to one of the witnesses, "Look at the wife so you may point her out during testimony."

    The witness stood up and said to the woman, "Stand."

    Upon this, the husband said, "What do you want from her?"

    The husband was told, "It is necessary that the witness sees your wife unveiled so that he may know that it is your wife."

    The husband detested his wife unveiling her face for the witnesses in public. He screamed, saying, "I make the Qaadi my witness that this Mahr of my wife is an obligation on me, and she must not unveil her face!"

    When the wife heard this, she thought it was wonderful that her husband
    disapproved of her unveiling her face before the witnesses, and was protecting her from the sight of people.


    She too screamed at the Qaadi, "I make you a witness that I have granted my Mahr to him, and have absolved him in this Dunyaa and the Aakhirah!"

    The Qaadi said to those around him, "Record this as a moral standard."

    Source: Tarbiyat Al-Awlaaad Fil Islaam


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    MashaAllah walhamdulillah.

    Can u tell me a bit abt the source its taken from? and if there anymore stories of such values?
    What has he lost who has found You (O Allah),
    and what has he found who has lost You (O Allah).

    :Ibn AtaIllah:


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    Default Re: Ghayrah of a man about his wife and wife's Appreciation

    You know what's really sad.

    If this account occured today, Women's Lib groups would call the husband an oppressor and the wife a brainwashed fool.
    This world is as if in a mother's womb. Living in the womb, if you were told of the life to come -would your undeveloped mind be able to comprehend it?
    Nay. And such is the Afterlife.


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    Default Re: Ghayrah of a man about his wife and wife's Appreciation

    Quote Originally Posted by Jannatulnadwa View Post
    MashaAllah walhamdulillah.

    Can u tell me a bit abt the source its taken from? and if there anymore stories of such values?
    Asslamo Allaikum,

    I received the story in an email from an Authentic source and there are many sources with this name that I am not sure about the Author.

    Sorry.


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