View Poll Results: Is it good to get marry the such young kids ?

Voters
7. You may not vote on this poll

  • Yes

    0 0%

  • No

    0 0%

  • Dont Know

    0 0%
Multiple Choice Poll.
Page 1 of 6 123 ... LastLast
Results 1 to 10 of 53

Thread: Child Marriage

  1. 01-11-2008, 03:33 PM #1
    Yasir786
    Yasir786 is offline
    Senior Member Yasir786's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2008
    Gender
    Brother
    Madhhab
    None
    Location
    Lahore, Pakistan.
    Posts
    296

    Default Child Marriage

    Asalam O Alikum,
    Police raid on a house about 2 evening ago in Karachi... There was a marriage is going to be in between 8 years old boy & 4 years old girl...

    The father said that they had few family crisis so they wanted to fix their problem in this manner... However the Imam who was going for Nikkah said this is Ok... Then he said after watching the kids they were going to engage then in written form.... Wallah ho Alam

    Asalam O Alikum
    Alhamdulillah Muslim by birth but wants to explanation of every thing for me as well as others.. Hope you got the point... Jazak Allah Karim
    Reply With Quote Reply With Quote

    2. "How To Begin Reading And Understanding An Arabic Book in 21 Days"

  2. 01-11-2008, 04:51 PM #2
    abuhajira
    abuhajira is offline
    Mufti abuhajira's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2004
    Gender
    Brother
    Madhhab
    Hanafi
    Location
    Montreal, Canada
    Posts
    8,522
    Blog Entries
    41

    Default Re: Child Marriage



    pics are not allowed on the forum. Please read the rules.

    Reply With Quote Reply With Quote

    3. FREE postage anywhere in the UK.

  3. 01-11-2008, 04:52 PM #3
    Ansari
    Ansari is offline
    Senior Member
    Join Date
    Jun 2004
    Gender
    Brother
    Madhhab
    Hanafi
    Location
    Europe
    Posts
    3,252

    Default Re: Child Marriage

    Mufti Muneebur Rahman came on TV stating the marriage was perfectly fine and legal under the Shariah.
    And if he were to ask for a gentle lady in marriage, he would be refused, and when he leaves the world it does not miss him, and if he goes out, his going out is not noticed, and if he falls sick, he is not attended to, and if he dies, he is not accompanied to his grave.
    Reply With Quote Reply With Quote

  4. 01-11-2008, 05:27 PM #4
    TruthHood
    TruthHood is offline
    Senior Member
    Join Date
    Jul 2008
    Gender
    Brother
    Madhhab
    Maliki
    Posts
    312

    Default Re: Child Marriage

    Quote Originally Posted by Yasir786 View Post
    Asalam O Alikum,
    Police raid on a house about 2 evening ago in Karachi... There was a marriage is going to be in between 8 years old boy & 4 years old girl...

    The father said that they had few family crisis so they wanted to fix their problem in this manner... However the Imam who was going for Nikkah said this is Ok... Then he said after watching the kids they were going to engage then in written form.... Wallah ho Alam

    Asalam O Alikum


    I've always thought that both the groom and bride must be over puberty for marriage. How can it be valid? Did anyone get married at this age during the prophet's time?
    Reply With Quote Reply With Quote

  5. 01-11-2008, 05:32 PM #5
    Ansari
    Ansari is offline
    Senior Member
    Join Date
    Jun 2004
    Gender
    Brother
    Madhhab
    Hanafi
    Location
    Europe
    Posts
    3,252

    Default Re: Child Marriage

    According to all schools of law it is perfectly valid to give one's daughter or son in marriage, even if he/she has not reached puberty.
    And if he were to ask for a gentle lady in marriage, he would be refused, and when he leaves the world it does not miss him, and if he goes out, his going out is not noticed, and if he falls sick, he is not attended to, and if he dies, he is not accompanied to his grave.
    Reply With Quote Reply With Quote

  6. 01-11-2008, 06:47 PM #6
    TruthHood
    TruthHood is offline
    Senior Member
    Join Date
    Jul 2008
    Gender
    Brother
    Madhhab
    Maliki
    Posts
    312

    Default Re: Child Marriage

    Quote Originally Posted by Ansari View Post
    According to all schools of law it is perfectly valid to give one's daughter or son in marriage, even if he/she has not reached puberty.
    I have just been confirmed that according to the maliki madhhab that this marriage would be perfectly valid but the difference being that the groom's consent must be given. So the groom can't just be given in marriage first without approval.
    Reply With Quote Reply With Quote

  7. 01-11-2008, 06:52 PM #7
    Ansari
    Ansari is offline
    Senior Member
    Join Date
    Jun 2004
    Gender
    Brother
    Madhhab
    Hanafi
    Location
    Europe
    Posts
    3,252

    Default Re: Child Marriage

    Quote Originally Posted by TruthHood View Post
    I have just been confirmed that according to the maliki madhhab that this marriage would be perfectly valid but the difference being that the groom's consent must be given. So the groom can't just be given in marriage first without approval.
    Are you talking here about the approval of the wali, or the child himself?
    And if he were to ask for a gentle lady in marriage, he would be refused, and when he leaves the world it does not miss him, and if he goes out, his going out is not noticed, and if he falls sick, he is not attended to, and if he dies, he is not accompanied to his grave.
    Reply With Quote Reply With Quote

  8. 01-11-2008, 06:55 PM #8
    Yasir786
    Yasir786 is offline
    Senior Member Yasir786's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2008
    Gender
    Brother
    Madhhab
    None
    Location
    Lahore, Pakistan.
    Posts
    296

    Smile Re: Child Marriage

    Quote Originally Posted by abuhajira View Post


    pics are not allowed on the forum. Please read the rules.

    Asalam O Alikum,
    I am very sorry...
    Thanks for informing me about that....
    Asalam O Alikum
    Alhamdulillah Muslim by birth but wants to explanation of every thing for me as well as others.. Hope you got the point... Jazak Allah Karim
    Reply With Quote Reply With Quote

  9. 01-11-2008, 06:58 PM #9
    Yasir786
    Yasir786 is offline
    Senior Member Yasir786's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2008
    Gender
    Brother
    Madhhab
    None
    Location
    Lahore, Pakistan.
    Posts
    296

    Exclamation Re: Child Marriage

    Quote Originally Posted by Silent_One View Post
    My understanding is they were 'married off' to settle a long standing family fued.
    Asalam O Alikum,
    Yes, They explained something like that to the Police...
    Asalam O Alikum
    Alhamdulillah Muslim by birth but wants to explanation of every thing for me as well as others.. Hope you got the point... Jazak Allah Karim
    Reply With Quote Reply With Quote

  10. 01-11-2008, 07:11 PM #10
    TruthHood
    TruthHood is offline
    Senior Member
    Join Date
    Jul 2008
    Gender
    Brother
    Madhhab
    Maliki
    Posts
    312

    Default Re: Child Marriage

    Quote Originally Posted by Ansari View Post
    Are you talking here about the approval of the wali, or the child himself?
    Both of their consent must be given. Groom and Wali. So yes the boy (child) and the guardian of the girl.
    Last edited by TruthHood; 01-11-2008 at 11:11 PM.
    Reply With Quote Reply With Quote

« Previous Thread | Next Thread »

Similar Threads

  1. Why must TWO sheeps be slaugtered for a MALE child and just ONE for a female child?
    By Idil_ in forum General Islam
    Replies: 33
    Last Post: 02-11-2012, 08:44 AM
  2. i am going to get married, fiance already has child from previous marriage
    By mohammadx in forum Islamic Parenting
    Replies: 9
    Last Post: 25-05-2010, 12:25 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  

Forum Rules