One problem when we pose questions here in SF, is that we expect to get immediate answers, and when we dont, we sometimes dont bother checking it. I am talking about myself. I should have been more active over here, but havent. Its a shame.
A big and warm thank you to the borthers/sisters who have replied and replied very sensibly and in an inspiring and uplifting manner.
You need to fall to experience pain. You wont know the pleasures of healing until you have experienced the pain of falling. My views right now resonate completely with yours brother Intrepid. I am as mistaken as anyone can be. May Allah guide me and all the others to the right path and keep me ti the right path.
True than brother Hamza81, its time to look at the long time gains. Very wise words there brother Abu Shuja'ah.
Sister goldfish, "Allah is with me, Allah is near me and Allah is looking at me."