You shouldn't want to over come this. You should stay away from intermixing with women and talk to them as little as possible.

You shouldn't want to over come this. You should stay away from intermixing with women and talk to them as little as possible.
Alhamdulillah! U have become a Muslim at this age.Shyness is a not a problem at all.If u are a Muslim and if u dont have shyness in u then it's a problem.U have got this sudden shyness around females due to the iman in u I guess.And its a good thing if u can avoid talking to females unnecessarily as much as possible .may Allah bless you!!

to all,
well you should be shy when you are in such forbidden situation, yes forbidden cause you should have prevented these situations to happen.
As it says, "If you have no shyness then do whatever you want!"

Wether a muslim is shy or not they should not talk to the opposite gender (ghair maharam). We shouldnt be even looking at the opposite gender. Allah curses the one who looks and the one looked upon.
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Last edited by KeepTheGazeDown; 24-01-2009 at 10:52 AM.
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