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    Default Help-Please I need to get married!

    Assalaamoalaykum-w-w
    Please help me I need to get married. What advise can you give me?
    JK.
    In the rouse of the new awakening and global "Islam-asization" will the world be more chaotic or will there more love and tolerance?


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    Default Re: Help-Please I need to get married!

    make dua for allah to bless you with a wife and then go to the masjid and ask the imam or some brothers to help you.

    During the times of the salaf it was much easier to marry because ppl wud marry off their sisters, daughters, aunties etc and its a shame that things have eneded up the way things are with it becoming incredibly difficult to marry


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    Default Re: Help-Please I need to get married!

    Quote Originally Posted by qibla View Post
    Assalaamoalaykum-w-w
    Please help me I need to get married. What advise can you give me?
    JK.



    The Prophet advised men:

    A woman is married for four things;

    Her wealth;
    her family status;
    her beauty;
    and her religion.

    So marry the religious woman, or you will lose. (Al-Bukhaaree)

    He clarified that this kind of woman is among the best wealth that a man could find. When he was asked; "What kind of wealth should one seek?" He replied: Let one of you seek a thankful heart, a mindful tongue and a believing wife who can help him in the matter of the Hereafter. "
    (Ibn Maajah; authentic and similar with at-Tirmithee)

    What kind of a community do you live in, brother? Do you interact socially with other Muslim brothers? Do you speak to any of the brothers who go to your masjid?

    A little bit of info might help us to suggest ideas

    Divine help means to have enough strength to do good deeds, when one intends to do.
    Hazrat Ibrahim Adham


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    Default Re: Help-Please I need to get married!

    Assalaamoalaykum-w-w
    I am kind of disabled. I have a heart disease and my brain malfunctions sometimes. I tend not to do things as per regularity and do get bored very quickly.
    In the rouse of the new awakening and global "Islam-asization" will the world be more chaotic or will there more love and tolerance?


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