It is idiotic to expact someone to be employed if one has a habbit of leaving for 4 months khuruz on yearly basis. I like to see the elders of TJ look after the families when they are on the street.
TJ members go for khrooj for 40 days in an year.It is idiotic to expact someone to be employed if one has a habbit of leaving for 4 months khuruz on yearly basis
As an employer it looks idiotic. But let me quote the other side of the story. While working for projects, schedules are to be met, the employee finishes the job a month before schedule (putting extra effort), he applies for leave for one month. I like that employee. Think of employees who are corrupt, lazy, dishonest etc. Now we have a employee who is honest, hard working etc. He applies for a month's leave, surely I shall grant him leave.
When a saathee works under the guidance of TJ elders, Inshaa Allah he will never be on street. It is the zealot who don't want to get controlled by elders face problems.I like to see the elders of TJ look after the families when they are on the street
TJ says don't come out breaking the door, rather, open the door.Not everyone can leave their job and business.
May be you should also see people who don't have wealth but could manage a satisfied marriage.Trust me a lot of them would not give you second glance when you are trying to find spouse for your daughter and son because you don't fit into secular ideals of weath.
Yes "Allah se hota hai", Never experienced "Allah se naheen hota hai".So much for the statement 'Allahse hota hai'
Regarding taking a job with a dress code, the serious elders are their to guide them.
Let me quote a incident. One brother had "female beauty saloon". After four months he wanted to close that. He did mashwarah with elders (they didn't say Allah se hota hai). They advised him to continue with the saloon, also in the shop they asked him to sell items used by ladies. Slowly he drifted towards the shop and closed the "beauty saloon".
We have many such stories of people who work in haram jobs, like bank jobs.
That is called open door, don't break it.