You are our elder, so if I said something wrong or MORONIC then please point it out specifically. I will remove my post or edit it. This general admonition does no good to me in terms of knowing my mistake. Next time I will just post verbatim from Beheshti Zewar instead of writing in my own words - maybe then it will not be MORONIC or insensitive. When fuqaha write fiqh books I am sure they are not trying to sensitive or discrete.
The opinions we express here in a crude manner does not reflect our personality just as the personality of the fuqaha are not as crude and insensitive as their writings. We are discussing a point - nothing more - that's how I saw the matter.
EDIT: I have deleted my posts just in case it offended anyone - so forgive me for any insensitive comments. I hope brother ENIGMA and Sulaiman84 will also remove my quotes from their posts. JazakAllah.