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    Default Re: Cure for Masturbation:by Hazrat Maulana Hakeem Akhtar Sahab db

    Quote Originally Posted by sarosh35 View Post
    sallam
    i m 15 years and m involved badly in this bad habit but i wanna stop it i wanted to ask that might i be forgiven for what i hav done??? and please pray for me!!!!
    Inshallah, Allah ta'ala will forgive you, but you have to leave this sin. NOTHING but determination will help you stop it.

    Read the posts on http://www.reddit.com/r/nofap to motivate yourself to quit.
    http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/faq
    Read the entries of people who have abstained for more than 90 days. Take the challenge!. Read my posts above.


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    Assalamualaikum Brother. I am 16 years old and i was once involved badly in it!! I know how it felt!!! Its hard to stop because the thought of these things always comes to our mind and in these times there are women not dressed properly and not covered everywhere!!!! But i tried to stop and one day i make up my mind and ask Allah The Almighty to grant me knowledge and ilm, to open up the doors of knowledge to me if i stop doing it and subhanallah on that day itself i found this video!!

    Hope it will help you
    This Is The Day Of Reckoning ᴴᴰ - Muhammad Abdul Jabbar
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tCd7...eature=related

    Death-The Destroyer Of Plesures - by Muhammad Abdul Jabbar
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PqSK...eature=related

    Inshallah Allah will help you.
    "Seeking knowledge is a duty upon every Muslim."
    Help me in guiding me towards the sweetness of faith.
    "It is only those who have knowledge among His servants that fear Allah."


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    assalam o alaikumsir i am 20 years old male. ALHAMDULILLAH i say prayers regularly and started practicing islam....since last five nites i dont know ,i was so much sexually overpowerd... i tried my best not to do any thing wrong ......but last night i tried my best ....to avoid it...but even after struggle of 2 hours with my nufs.. i had to masturbate... i just want to ask is there any type of relaxation.... as i am bachelor and was not going to do zina........but i was in such a situation that i cann't explain.......please tell me the right thing keeping in mind the situation i have explained....
    JAZAKALLAH
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    Learning to dissuade the nafs is something that is learnt and one gets better and more aware with practice. You should continue to adhere to salat, taking ghusl immediately so you never miss a salat. Also sometimes like tv, or seeing things outside can trigger those strong feelings.

    You are just learning that this horse called the nafs can be hard to control. Training a horse takes years and the nafs perhaps decades. Learn to get very sincere in tauba, Allah wants you to see you do your best at struggling against the nafs, sometimes the human being is not successful but Allah is looking for your effort and struggle so you should never give up, despite stumbling over and over again and turning to Allah through tauba and istigfar when you do stumble.

    You should try to read Imam Ghazali if you can to understand better your enemy, the satan and the nafs. Namely the books 21 and 22. Also try to have a busy schedule, so you don't have too much time idle.
    Our beloved Prophet (Peace be upon him) said: "On the Day of Resurrection, nothing will weigh heavier upon the scales than good character" (Abu Dawud and Tirmidhi)


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    Default Re: Cure for Masturbation:by Hazrat Maulana Hakeem Akhtar Sahab db

    JAZAKALLAH

    but question is this that .......in that situation... when someone feels it a hindered as i stated that it was upon me since last 4 nights ....i was forced..... even in that case when it was not for joy... was that still a sin ??


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    Perhaps reading this may lead you to an answer:

    http://spa.qibla.com/issue_view.asp?...D=4907&CATE=42
    Our beloved Prophet (Peace be upon him) said: "On the Day of Resurrection, nothing will weigh heavier upon the scales than good character" (Abu Dawud and Tirmidhi)


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