Assalam u Alaikum WaRahmatullah-e-WaBaraktuhu
I m sorry for such a long story
One of my very close relative got into a worst situation when their only son( the brother of 3 sisters) fall in love with a shiaa girl. Before that he was the most obedient one among all of his siblings. Was so caring and sensitive especially for his mother. But soon after meeting that girl he started pushing his mother to go to the girl's house and meet her parents. But the mother was totally against as they were ehle sunnah. He tried so hard but ALHAMDULILLAH his mother never got agree on this plus she trusted her son a lot that he will never go against her wishes. But one day he secretly married the same girl. And when his mother came to know about this thing, her first reaction was no my son can't do this. After that she got hospitalized for 2 days in shock. After that her son came to meet her and apologized. They started living separately. The mother was so worried about his son as he started going in shiaa majlis and started cursing SAHABA RA and Ayesha RZ. She talked to many aalims about his son and they all said your son is in sihr. The girl's family have done black magic on him continuously for three yrs and now they will never let your son come back to you. and they also said that the girl is not good. After that his mother brought him back to her house with his wife and a 6 month old son. The mother told her daughter in law that if you want to live here you have to convert to ehle sunnah. None of your family member will come to our house, you can go to meet your parents but in Moharram you will stay at home with me. And I want you to pray the way ehle sunnah do. She said OK sure. But she never did it. In Ramadhan she used to open the fast the way ehle tashee do. never prayed in 3 yrs. On every 9th, 10th moharram she used to lie that her mother or father is ill so she need to meet her/him. She never let her son get interact to his grandmother and never leave him alone with them. The son do not listen to her mother at all. And now whenever I meet that woman i always find her so sad and she cries all the time by saying my son was among those who never let me cry and now he doesnt care at all. The main concern of her mother now is that He should come back to ehle sunnah and stop following ehle tashee. But he do not listen to her. The second thing we noticed in him that he lies too much now. Whenever he did something like go to majlis he said I swear to ALLAH i never attended it and when someone caught him he said yes i was there. When she talks to any aalim they say your son is in sihr so he won't listen to you at all. He would only listen to his wife and her parents. He has no love for you now. They have given him owl's meat to eat which is a part of black magic and now he will only listen to them no matter how much you cry infront of him. Now the boy got 2 sons but the conditions are just the same. The aalims also suggested to dissolve the marriage as his nikah was carried by a Shia scholar. But they also say that dissolving nikah can also harm your son as they will never let your son go and the sihr is so hard on him. Can anyone tell me what Should she do now?