How to show interest in a girl?

[PakSwed]

Assalamu aleikum

I know a girl whom I am interested in for marriage. However I don't know if she feels the same for me.

How can I in a smart and islamic way show my interest for her, and how can I find out if she is interested in me?

There is the option to telephone her (we live in different towns) and ask if she can see a future with me, but I'm afraid to shock her, plus that it's pretty embarrassing

[Aram]

walaykum asalaam

approach her mahram or get your sister or mother to approach her and ask her for you

[PakSwed]

Jazakallah kheir for the good advice. But I just wonder, is there any other way where I don't have to involve others.. I don't know her mahram and I'd prefer not to involve my family until I know if she is interested.

[_SOD_]

why dont u just meet her in a public place n just ask her, nt like that hole big proposal thing, bt in a genaral discussion, i gues it wud be embarrassing bt if she says yes then i gues it sud b worth it
.. btw if she says yes, u shud get the families involvd. Im nt sure if this is considerd old fashion bt i think its important for family members to like your spouse

[Ahnaf Defender]

Asslam-o-Alaikum,

I know its off topic. but plz dont delete.

Sister Aram i oftenly dont talk to na Mahram but. the Ashaars of Hazrat Nafees Shah Sahab (r.a) brought tears in my eyes.

I just want that can u share more of his ashars. and had u made any bait with Shah Sahab (r.a) ?

[Aram]

Jazakallah kheir for the good advice. But I just wonder, is there any other way where I don't have to involve others.. I don't know her mahram and I'd prefer not to involve my family until I know if she is interested.

usually when guys approach girls they do come across as sleezy so its hard to tell when someone is being serious and to consider it seriously, if you put her on the spot it could make her feel uncomfortable and say no without even thinking about it much

i guess you could hand her a note and write in it that you are interested in getting to know her for marriage and leave your contact number and ask her to get her mahram to call you if she is interested

[Aram]

Asslam-o-Alaikum,

I know its off topic. but plz dont delete.

Sister Aram i oftenly dont talk to na Mahram but. the Ashaars of Hazrat Nafees Shah Sahab (r.a) brought tears in my eyes.

I just want that can u share more of his ashars. and had u made any bait with Shah Sahab (r.a) ?

walaykum asalaam

i have a collections of his poetry, inshaAllah i will try and type some of it up and create a thread and post it in there

no, i had never met hadhrat