There is a transsexual who is interested in converting to Islam. He asks can a transsexual convert to Islam. He said that he is taking female hormones and that he has breats now. He said that he wouldn't want to become a man again for the sake of Islam because his family wouldn't take him seriously anymore and he says he would just rather kill himself than live as a boy. Needless to probably say that he feels pretty strongly about the matter. He is also 16-years-old, so quite young. He also says that on other forums Muslims don't take seriously and send him hate mail. He also says that he is quite sad because he wants to convert but then he has this matter.
How would you advise such a person? What is the scholarly advice for this case? I know that the Prophet Muhammad cursed the effeminate man and that changing the creation of God is one of the commands of Satan.
Please, give me advice that I can pass unto him as I feel that this matter is too sensitive for me to answer and I lack the knowledge and wisdom to answer him.