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    Salams,

    Hey, whatever happened to Naghia? I mean, she hasn't posted here for awhile. Gid, I hope she didn't slip up and fall into the sin she was trying to avoid...If you're still there, let us know what's up, please...really worried about this sister...

    Wa Salam,

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tempest Desh View Post
    Salams,

    Hey, whatever happened to Naghia? I mean, she hasn't posted here for awhile. Gid, I hope she didn't slip up and fall into the sin she was trying to avoid...If you're still there, let us know what's up, please...really worried about this sister...

    Wa Salam,

    Tempest Desh

    I understand how you feel.
    I personally feel that I am a railway platform-(sometimes) used once and left behind.
    Wassalam


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    Sister i think at some point if you are not married you do get these urges whether you live in Italy.Saudi Arabia or Pakistan.And they are very difficult to avoid but you can get married if you really need it and then try normal methods to avoid pregnancy till you are ready for it.And ask Allah for help spend you most of the time in prayer and Prophet s.a.w advised saum( fasting) for young unmarried youth.


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    Doing istikhaar b4 marriage, can u go ahead with ur marriage plans even while u av a bad dream about the istikhaar and can some1 do istikhaar on behave of another person


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    either you get married or you fast.

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    Except you at the occurrence of widespread calamity.


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    Assalamu Alaikum Sister,

    It is great to see that you are concerned of your chastity and realizing the importance of chastity and doing actions according to the commands of Allah (SWT) are a blessing not everyone is blessed. First you should Thank Allah the All Mighty for this blessing and pray 2 rakaht salah for thanking Allah and make dua that May Allah (SWT) find you a pious husband Ameen !

    Well I am knew to this forum but I wanted to know if you want get married I have someone who also is going to go for medicine Inshallah ! Let me know JazakAllah Khair !

    Salam


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    I think the arrogance of the people led the sister to sin......
    well done


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tempest Desh View Post
    Salams,

    Hey, whatever happened to Naghia? I mean, she hasn't posted here for awhile. Gid, I hope she didn't slip up and fall into the sin she was trying to avoid...If you're still there, let us know what's up, please...really worried about this sister...

    Wa Salam,

    Tempest Desh
    Assalamu aleikum to everyone,
    I am really sorry not to keep on posting here for a very long time; lessons, exams and other problems took me away.
    I really thank you for your worry, Allah bless you, it is very kind of all of you. Al hamdulillah, I haven't committed zina, Allah still gives me strenght enough to avoid that.
    Well, I give news about this "problem"...someone suggested me to talk with my parents, well, I did... but it was all quiet useless. I mean, I faced the matter with them several times, because they saw me very sad and depressed in some way for this fact - and I sometimes burst into tears for it speaking about it (I know it's very stupid, I'm ashamed, but it's going for too much time) - and the only thing they told me was "don't worry, Inshallah someone right for you will come"; I don't know if they understood the real matter inside, which is the fact that I don't know Muslim men, and all the boys I know are non-Muslims. It's a bit frustrating...I mean, I know it could be possible for a non-Muslim man to convert to our beautiful religion, but I am always worried about the meaning of that possible conversion... I don't want someone to become Muslim just with words to please me, it's a very bad thing and I would feel guilty. I don't still know how to behave in this environment, which, after all, I belong to; if I moved to my father's land, I would start my life from the beginning, maybe feeling like a stranger... I know, I suppose you are thinking something about "so stay there and keep on complaining", but, trust me, it's complicated...
    Is it so strange to be desired and appreciated as a woman (in the right way) and not only as a daughter, a sister and a colleague? Am I exaggerating?
    I sometimes feel terribly stupid for it, there are lots of problems in the world, much more worse than this, but I can't avoid thinking about it... I can't fall in love with anyone because he isn't "proper" for me and if someone (who knows I'm Muslimah) falls in love with me I always have to reject him immediately... but I AM a woman, not a child.
    I wish I could be as ascetic as a Sufi!

    I hope you are all well and healthy =)
    Wa salam


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    Hmm... The root cause is your parents. You just need to convince them, right?

    Start telling them that, you are not interested in family life, loneliness is more preferable to you, you want to be unmarried throughout your life etc etc. (Precaution: your acting should be perfect. You need to rehearse before telling them to make it realistic.)

    They will be afraid of your intention and will start searching for a guy for you. Because, no parents can tolerate unmarried son/daughter.


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