Sat 12 & Sun 13 Feb-Love & Its Limits/Marriage: A Form of Ibadah! Y Don't U Marry?

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Love & Its Limits & Marriage: A Form of Ibadah! Why don’t you Marry???

Saturday 12th & Sunday 13th February 2011

Time: After Asr 3pm-7pm Each Day

Speakers

Uthman Lateef, Murtaza Khan, Abdul Majid Iltaf, Abu Abdullah, Suliman Gani & Others

Free Entry Upon Registration or £3 at the door!
Strict Segregation

To Register, for Enquiries, Directions & Stalls:

inspireyouthproject@hotmail.com

Brothers:07903388875 Sisters:07539737760



Topics:

Nature of Love
Unlawful Love
Harms of Zina
Valentines Day
Freemixing
Social Networking
Virtues of Marriage
Ettiquettes of seeking a partner
Deen & Culture: Conflict or Compromise?
Roles, Rights & Responsibilities of Husband & Wife
Golden Advice for the married couple
Divorce: A Last Resort

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We have to admit that amongst the very many immoral practices generally existing widespread in our societies today, the most harmful and forceful is the intermingling of sexes which inevitably leads to the curse of unlawful love and relationships. Unfortunately I myself like other youths have been caught in the grip of this pernicous tree and am finding it increasingly difficult to disentangle myself from its thorny and poisonous branches.

The proponents of western culturew and the media have to no surprise ceased to condemn such vices. Far from diuscouraging this evil by displaying its harms and negative consequences, it is glamorised and presented as a better alternative. It seems as if thew entire humanity is bent upon justifying such immorality and convincing the masses of its harmlessness. It is then our fundamental responsibility to reming the Ummah, especially its young members, to realise the potential dangers such immoral practices are posing to their imaan and livelihood and how to extricate themselves from indulginh therein.

With this intention in mind we have embarked to hold this event. We will have various speeches delivered on the theme of Marriage and Love. Insha'allah the speeches will be highly appreciated and thought of as being immensely beneficial due to the relevance of the theme for modern day youth. Insha'allah it will also prove to be higly effective in ensuring the elimination of unlawful love and educating the masses on the parameters of lawful love.

Insha'allah it will also prevent the increase of ensuing sins and problems that stem from such immoral behaviour. Although it may only amount to a drop of water in resistance to violent and fiercew tides of attempts to promote indecency and encourage shamelessness, I have full hope in Allah that through his infinite power, will cause itto bring about the intended changes within oursleves and our society.

Over these two days our pespected speakers will share with us thier knowledge and wisdom in light of the authenticated Quran & Sunnah.

May Allah bless us, guide us and protect us. AMEEN!

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Marriage Is A Form of Ibadah!

Among His Signs is that he created spouses for you of your own kind so that you might find tranquility in them. And He has placed affection and compassion between you. There are certainly signs in that for people who reflect. (AR-RUM 30:21)

Marriage marks a unique moment in the life of an individual, the dawn of a new era in the life of a person, the acquiring of a new part in the role-play of this world. It is the coming together of two souls, the merging of two worlds, the meeting of two minds. It is when two incomplete halves come together to become one complete, loving whole.

No Wonder Why the Prophet (saw) said: “You won’t find anything like marriage for two lovers.” (Ibn Majah)

and also:

“When the slave enters matrimony, he has completed half of his religion, let him now fear Allah regarding the remaining half.” (al-bayhaqi in shu’ab al-iman)

But, as with all bounties, marriage brings with it many responsibilities; for life is ultimately a test and every part of it, the good and the bad, is there to determine how you interact with the situations placed before you, and how you respond to Allah.

And Among His Signs is that He created for you wives from amongst yourselves, that you may find repose in them and he has created between you affection and mercy. Indeed, herein are signs for people who reflect. (AR-RUM 30:21)

“The whole world is a commodity, and the most valuable of its commodities is a righteous woman.” (Muslim)

“O company of youth, whosoever amongst you has the means of getting married should do so because it lowers the gaze and protects the private parts; and whosoever does not have the ability should fast for, indeed it is a protection for him.” (Al-Bukhari)

Ideally, a young person who experiences carnal urges should get married with their parents consent as soon as possible. This has so many benefits to society, including safeguarding oneself from illicit love and relationships, as well as others. This is something both young and old need to understand, as this is the Islamic teaching- the commandments of Allah and his Messenger, and therefore holds more importance than cultural dictates and ignorant practices.

“A lady is married foe one of four reasons: wealth, rank, beauty, or piety. Marry her that possesses piety and achieve success!” (Bukhari and Muslim)

“When a person whose religion and character you are pleased with proposes to you, marry him. If you do not, there will be tribulations on the earth and far-reaching corruption.” (At-Tirmidhi)

WHY DON'T YOU MARRY???

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[stranger786]

is is salafi mosque? just curious

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[Selwyn Road Masjid]

FIRST OF ALL WE ARE NOT A MASJID RATHER A CENTRE.

ALHAMDULILLAH WE ARE MUSLIM.

Whatever u want to label or call us thats upto U. But as far as we r concerned we take good from everyone and r looking to UNITE the UMMAH!

When the Kuffar come to kill us they will not ask us whether we r salafi, madhabi, tablighi, jihadi etc rather they will kill us for being MUSLIM! So put your petty differences aside akhi.

Neither will they ask what is our aqeedah or manhaj. . .

Regardless of our label we can all be upon the haq under our respective labels as long as we meet the criteria set by the Quran & Sunnah!

KHAIR. . .