Failure of Conception - Who's the culprit?

[Taliban1]

I'm making a thread about this topic because in our world today, failing to have children is always blamed on women alone. Women are seen to be the culprits. They will be insulted, they will be blamed, they will be beaten, they will be tortured and they will be divorced and sent back home.

A very famous infertility doctor in Karachi (Benazir had children because of his ilaaj :P) said in an interview:

In 80% of the cases, the problem is found to be in the husband

But sadly enough, the EGOs of Men are so HUGE that they will put all the blame so easily on the WIFE and pretend to be Hero themselves.

The wife would be taken from Doctor to Hakeem, from hakeem to homeopathic doctor, and end up with a Desi Daee. But the husband's EGO will never allow him to go and get his tests done because of the fear that it might turn out to be faulty.

I have come across many cases in my family where the husband turns out to be the culprit.

[amr123]

A very famous infertility doctor in Karachi (Benazir had children because of his ilaaj :P) said in an interview:

In 80% of the cases, the problem is found to be in the husband

I thought doctors didnt know what they were doing...?

The problem i have with doctors is not because they did so and so to me. Or it's not like they're not deeni. Or like they deceive people. Nothing of this sort. The problem is, most of the time they don't even know what the problem is and the medicine they are prescribing, what it is composed of and what it does. They don't know anything.

Hmm suddenly they are reliable... wow.

[Taliban1]

I thought doctors didnt know what they were doing...?




Hmm suddenly they are reliable... wow.

He's a Homeopathic doctor

[amr123]

He's a Homeopathic doctor

Yea Yea... keep on rolling..

[Taliban1]

yea yea... Keep on rolling..

the problem is, most of the time they don't even know what the problem is and the medicine they are prescribing, what it is composed of and what it does.

most of the time

[amr123]

most of the time

Yea sure. We doctors play cricket and football for 5.5 years of Medical course, We never read the 19 subjects we have to study. Yea and the faculty don't correct our university papers they just make us pass.

[Taliban1]

Yea sure. We doctors play cricket and football for 5.5 years of Medical course, We never read the 19 subjects we have to study. Yea and the faculty don't correct our university papers they just make us pass.

That explains why you took it to heart

[amr123]

That explains why you took it to heart

Must be because your fingers got loose on the keyboard. lol.
Coz you make real sense.

[Taliban1]

Must be because your fingers got loose on the keyboard. lol.
Coz you make real sense.

[abuhajira]

immaturity strikes again...

Both the Daktar and Molvi are well read..