View Poll Results: What's the impact of "the Poligamy campaign" on your understanding and life?

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  • I'm a MALE, I've always considered poligamy and now my intention is intensified

    29 20.00%
  • I'm a MALE, I've always considered poligamy and this hasn't changed anything.

    37 25.52%
  • I'm a MALE, I've never considered poligamy but now I've started considering about it.

    13 8.97%
  • I'm a MALE, I've never considered poligamy and this hasn't changed anything; not interested

    30 20.69%
  • I'm a FEMALE, I have never had any issue against poligamy

    15 10.34%
  • I'm a FEMALE, I had misconceptions about poligamy but now they got clarified: I'll try my best!

    5 3.45%
  • I'm a FEMALE, I had misconceptions about poligamy but now I'm re-analyzing the issue.

    4 2.76%
  • I'm a FEMALE, I won't accept a proposal to become a 2nd, 3rd or 4th wife.

    12 8.28%
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    Default Re: Really SAD.......

    Quote Originally Posted by Taliban View Post
    How does a father who has 4-5 daughters manage to feed them all?
    Ya Sayyidi,

    He doesn't!

    Whether a father has 5 daughters or 50 daughters. Allah (SWT) will provide for them like Allah (SWT) provided for them in the mothers womb.

    Sameway Allah (SWT) will arrange for their marraige and not the father. Whether the rate of women gets to be 50-1 or 500-1.

    وَمَا مِن دَآبَّةٍ۬ فِى ٱلۡأَرۡضِ إِلَّا عَلَى ٱللَّهِ رِزۡقُهَا وَيَعۡلَمُ مُسۡتَقَرَّهَا وَمُسۡتَوۡدَعَهَا*ۚ كُلٌّ۬ فِى ڪِتَـٰبٍ۬ مُّبِينٍ۬


    [11:5] And there is not a beast in the earth but the sustenance thereof dependeth on Allah. He knoweth its habitation and its repository. All is in a clear Record.



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    Default Re: Qissa Mukhtasar......

    السلام عليكم

    What's the plural of رضي الله عنها ?

    What do these mean and when to use them:

    رضي الله عنهم
    رضي الله عنهما
    رضي الله عنهم اجمعين


    جزاكم الله خيرا احسن الجزاء


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    Default Re: Really SAD.......

    Quote Originally Posted by Colonel_Hardstone View Post
    Ya Sayyidi,

    He doesn't!

    Whether a father has 5 daughters or 50 daughters. Allah (SWT) will provide for them like Allah (SWT) provided for them in the mothers womb.

    Sameway Allah (SWT) will arrange for their marraige and not the father. Whether the rate of women gets to be 50-1 or 500-1.

    وَمَا مِن دَآبَّةٍ۬ فِى ٱلۡأَرۡضِ إِلَّا عَلَى ٱللَّهِ رِزۡقُهَا وَيَعۡلَمُ مُسۡتَقَرَّهَا وَمُسۡتَوۡدَعَهَا*ۚ كُلٌّ۬ فِى ڪِتَـٰبٍ۬ مُّبِينٍ۬


    [11:5] And there is not a beast in the earth but the sustenance thereof dependeth on Allah. He knoweth its habitation and its repository. All is in a clear Record.



    And Allah will not arrange for wife/wives?

    Great logics!

    http://taddud.blogspot.com
    Fidaaaka abi anta wa ummi Ya Habeeb Allah !!!

    Kulluna AlYawma Fidaaaka Ya Khaira Khalq Allah !!!!


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    Default Re: Really SAD.......

    Quote Originally Posted by Taliban View Post
    How does a father who has 4-5 daughters manage to feed them all?
    Maulana Sahib,

    I'm sure you've read the tafsir in Ibn kathir and Ma'ariful Qur'an about marrying being a means to increase ones Rizq from the Aayah in surah Nur.
    Hearts are predisposed to love someone who does them good and to detest someone who does them harm.

    - Shah Waliyyullah ad-Dihlawi's Arba'in


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    Default Re: Really SAD.......

    Yes i have read, I'm just asking these guys who say that wife/wives are unaffordable.
    http://taddud.blogspot.com
    Fidaaaka abi anta wa ummi Ya Habeeb Allah !!!

    Kulluna AlYawma Fidaaaka Ya Khaira Khalq Allah !!!!


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    Default Re: Really SAD.......

    Quote Originally Posted by Taliban View Post


    And Allah will not arrange for wife/wives?

    Great logics!



    Rizq is not upto father/husband/son or whoever. She gets her Rizq from her Allah (SWT) whether she is married, divorced, 1st wife or 4th wife.

    If that's incorrect please explain.



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    Default Re: It's as natural as the first..



    Maulana Taliban, there are reliable ulama who advise against taking on a second wife. You’ve read yourself the advice of Mufti Ibrahim Desai (check askimam) and Shaykh Hakeem Akhtar. Furthermore, these ulama would be the first to agree that any degrading of polygyny as a Sunnah is tantamount to Kufr. So what do you think could be the valid Shar’i reasons behind such advices – bearing in mind these advices are not hidden, but made available to the general masses?

    Could it be because of the reduced capacity of people nowadays to deal with justice, and the fact that Zulm on the rights of creation is a clear cause of destruction of one's akhirah?

    "The servant who is unaware of his contemptibility and regards himself as honourable, is truly contemptible"
    (Ikmalush Shiyam - commentary of the Hikam of Ibn Ata'illah al-Iskandari)

    If Allah had not concealed my faults, and my true self was displayed, people would not even spit on me.


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    That's true.

    More reason to stop worrying about finances and go get married..

    http://taddud.blogspot.com
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    Kulluna AlYawma Fidaaaka Ya Khaira Khalq Allah !!!!


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    Default Re: Really SAD.......

    Quote Originally Posted by Taliban View Post


    That's true.

    More reason to stop worrying about finances and go get married..



    Rizq of a Muslimah has NOTHING to do with marraige. Allah (SWT) will feed her like Allah (SWT) fed her in her mothers womb.

    That's the point.

    Anything else is a weakness of Eemaan.


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    Default Re: Really SAD.......

    I heard this one Mualana say:

    People would be Awliyaa if they feared Jahannam like they fear poverty.

    Ash shaitaanu ya'idukumul faqra wa ya'murukum bil fah'shaa....
    Hearts are predisposed to love someone who does them good and to detest someone who does them harm.

    - Shah Waliyyullah ad-Dihlawi's Arba'in


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