Doing Without the Pleasures of this World:
Abu' l-Abbas as-Sa'idi said :
"A man came to the Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) and said, 'Oh Messenger of Allah! Guide me to such an action, that when I do it, Allah will love me and the people will love me?'
He said: "Do Not have love for this world and Allah will love you & do not be attracted to what people have and then the people will love you''.
Related by Hasan, ibn Majah kitab az-Zuhud' 2/1373