Assalamu alaikum wr wb
OK I got a problem well I didn't think it was really much of a problem before but now I think about it, perhaps I could find a way or perhaps you can advise me a way to handle this insha'Allah.
A friend of my husband, a revert would call the house often to talk to my husband, but the thing is I dont think he knows my name properly. He'll always end up calling me something else totally different. I tried to tell him a few times that my name is "so and so" yet he'll still insist on calling me something totally different. I told my husband to perhaps maybe tell him in a nice way my real name or the way to pronounce it and he keeps forgetting or says that its not really good adaab and since he's new he just doesnt understand that I shouldn't be addressed this way, and just call me UmmIbrahimIsa instead. But it gets very ackward in times when he does call or if he attends the dars and he calls me a totally different name and i dont respond cuz its not my name, and he thinks its rude of me.. yet i dont know how to really say it without offending him or how to tell someone to tell him without him getting offended.
any help would be appreciated, wouldnt ask if it wasn't a problem...