Love-Fear-Hope, Thanks for your well considered post.I can see you put a lot of time and thought into it. I am not disputing if there is a God or not, as I tend to think there is.
My problems is can God be capable of the things it says in the Quran about eternal hell.
See the following example.
22.19 These two antagonists dispute with each other about their Lord: But those who deny (their Lord),- for them will be cut out a garment of Fire: over their heads will be poured out boiling water.
22.20 With it will be scalded what is within their bodies, as well as (their) skins.
22.21 In addition there will be maces of iron (to punish) them.
22.22 Every time they wish to get away therefrom, from anguish, they will be forced back therein, and (it will be said), "Taste ye the Penalty of Burning!"