why is my thread closed

[mercyofAllah]

the problem with me is!
i am an introvert & i cant speak about my problems infront of any body let alone a Shaik.

its only that i m offline ... i have spoken so much about me. had there been SF members in front f me I wouldn't have..

As you know there are many introverts in this forum and I am of the same kind too. Many of us are good in expressing ourselves in writing than speaking. Also there is no need to speak about one's problems to everyone. The fikr of islah is a great bounty. It is enough if one seeks the help of a spiritual guide for islaah. Not much we can do with the continuous ranting as everyone of us do have nafsi problems and other problems. Talk to some close pious friends and mainly to the spiritual guide. I have seen that reciting, "Laa hawla walaa quwwata illa billaah" helps a lot bi-idnillaah. Allah SWT is the best listener and the best answerer and He SWT never gets tired or bored when His slaves speak to Him and infact He SWT loves His slaves turning to Him and speaking to Him seeking His SWT help. As we grow up, we will get spiritual maturity. Patience and endurance reflects one's maturity. So kindly calm down and keep seeking Allah's help for verily in the remembrance of Allah SWT, the heart finds rest.
InshaaAllah we will remember you in duaas.
Meantime there is a compilation of duaas by Hakeemul Ummat Maulana Ashraf Ali Tanvi (RA) named, "munaajaat-e-maqbool". Recite this continuously everyday for we cannot make better duas than in that book. The book is available in Urdu and English. Whichever you like, get the book. Let Allah SWt's help be always with you. Ameen

[Maripat]

That is sad brother.
But then we can control ourselves only.
Sarcasm and cynicism both are bad. First one is a major sin and and second one is express kufr!
Let us resolve to steer clear from both of them.
May Allah(SWT) make it easy for all the believers to shun bot sarcasm and cynicism.
Ameen.

[Maripat]

hadhrat!
can u explain me in simple terms what has been said ^.

From MW:

Definition of SARCASM
1
: a sharp and often satirical or ironic utterance designed to cut or give pain

2
a : a mode of satirical wit depending for its effect on bitter, caustic, and often ironic language that is usually directed against an individual

b : the use or language of sarcasm

Clearly to give pain is haraam. Satire too is questionable.

Hence we should give it up. As you said some one has already left SF because of sarcasm we already have a practical example of the harms that sarcasm brings in.

Same about cynicism.

[sudoku]

^ This is a good reminder, first and foremost for myself.

[Abu_Tamim]

From MW:


Clearly to give pain is haraam. Satire too is questionable.

Hence we should give it up. As you said some one has already left SF because of sarcasm we already have a practical example of the harms that sarcasm brings in.

Same about cynicism.

hmmm...applies so closely to me.
May Allah cleanse my heart and behaviour.
Hadrat, I am feeling munasibat towards you.
If I had not already been ba'it, then.........
Remember this sinner in tahajjud dua's, please.

[Maripat]

hmmm...applies so closely to me.

But I wrote it for me. Haha.

May Allah cleanse my heart and behaviour.

Mine too.

Hadrat, I am feeling munasibat towards you.

Actually it is other way round. I said in some other thread that if it was not for your posts I was happily an onlooker user.

If I had not already been ba'it, then.......

I know where you are getting.

Remember this sinner in tahajjud dua's, please.

No, no, other way round.
Wassalam