Assalu Aleykum. This is my first post on this forum. İ read from lots of articles that eye contact is important, it shows your confidence
etc . and it is a good practice to look at everybodies eyes. Althought I am a muslim, I was looking for such a sites like How to attract woman (Sorry writing this here). I had no bad idea I jast wanted to marry and could not get the girl I liked. After watching some videos on youtube about eye contact I decided by the way to check what is attitude in Islam regarding the eye contact. And I found this thread. Now after reading all posts, I want to thank again(and again) all those who wrote these posts, our brother and of course our sister . I didn't know about this before that I have to lover my gaze. Now with GOD's will I will try practice not to look at girls eyes directly, but lower my gaze. I think I should have to do it from the beginning. Thank you all for the help.
Its really delightful to hear of your conversion. Hope all is going well with you now. May Allah make it easy for you. Aameen
Our Shaikh specifically stresses on the need to lower down gazes in specially in today's age of Fitnah; Where women, mostly, have stopped dressing modestly. May Allah give every muslim guy to practice upon this.
Hadhrat Maulana Shah Hakim Muhammad Akhtar Sahib (d.b)
Hazrat Maulana Yunus Patel Sahib (r.h)
Hazrat Abdullah Feroz Memon (d.b)
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ما شاء الله,
May Allah make all of us lovers and followers of the beautiful way of life of Muhammad صلى الله عليه و سلم until our dying breath.