Suicide ?

**abdulwahhab** · 19-03-2012, 11:55 AM

As mentioned before, a Muslim can never be worse than trash in the sight of Allah

. Hold firmly to your Islam and seek knowledge. Engross yourself in the dhikr of Allah

. Seek a good shaykh to help you along the path.

**Umar_Ahmed** · 19-03-2012, 12:29 PM

Please do watch this video! It is very very encouraging.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0uSpfmZOvQU

**samy.3660** · 19-03-2012, 01:16 PM

ASSALAMU Alaikum
As brother pluto says it..
"When I get sad I stop being sad and instead be awesome"
brother losing hope is for disbeliever's

**hatelife** · 19-03-2012, 01:52 PM

Im in despair of finding a job (fresh graduate) since 9 months and counting, before i didnt want to enter a specific college (not better than the one i wanted to) but my family forced me into entering this one (not related to money) and now they told me to go to a specific person (manager) to submit my application (which i did) today i called the manager and told him that i found out that theres an opening at your company (a friend of mine told me) and told him "can i work for this opening" he said " your a fresh grad and you dont know anything, i dont need noobs at my work" i was like " :'( ok thx for bothering you."

And then i told my parents what happened and they're still telling me to go after him (its actually not that waw company)

As for me ive submitted my application to many companies but none called, actually some but the job is not related to my career, seeing all my colleagues ALLLLLLL found their way in (got a job) with a "wasta" or maybe not.

What im trying to say i s*ck at life, and thats only a part of my story, if you want the other part from this thread.

**mercyofAllah** · 19-03-2012, 04:28 PM

Originally Posted by hatelife

Im in despair of finding a job (fresh graduate) since 9 months and counting, before i didnt want to enter a specific college (not better than the one i wanted to) but my family forced me into entering this one (not related to money) and now they told me to go to a specific person (manager) to submit my application (which i did) today i called the manager and told him that i found out that theres an opening at your company (a friend of mine told me) and told him "can i work for this opening" he said " your a fresh grad and you dont know anything, i dont need noobs at my work" i was like " :'( ok thx for bothering you."

And then i told my parents what happened and they're still telling me to go after him (its actually not that waw company)

As for me ive submitted my application to many companies but none called, actually some but the job is not related to my career, seeing all my colleagues ALLLLLLL found their way in (got a job) with a "wasta" or maybe not.

What im trying to say i s*ck at life, and thats only a part of my story, if you want the other part from this thread.

one of my close relatives too found job after two years of finishing his studies. He sometimes got frustrated but everyone face trials and everyone will be relieved from that to face new challenges. He then got a job Alhamudlillah. Everything has its time. So wait patiently and trust Allah SWT that He SWT is Hakeem, Alim and Raheem. Dont stress too much.

**pluto** · 19-03-2012, 05:25 PM

Originally Posted by hatelife

Im in despair of finding a job (fresh graduate) since 9 months and counting, before i didnt want to enter a specific college (not better than the one i wanted to) but my family forced me into entering this one (not related to money) and now they told me to go to a specific person (manager) to submit my application (which i did) today i called the manager and told him that i found out that theres an opening at your company (a friend of mine told me) and told him "can i work for this opening" he said " your a fresh grad and you dont know anything, i dont need noobs at my work" i was like " :'( ok thx for bothering you."

And then i told my parents what happened and they're still telling me to go after him (its actually not that waw company)

As for me ive submitted my application to many companies but none called, actually some but the job is not related to my career, seeing all my colleagues ALLLLLLL found their way in (got a job) with a "wasta" or maybe not.

What im trying to say i s*ck at life, and thats only a part of my story, if you want the other part from this thread.

And you are hating life for this^ ??!

#areyouserious
#hilarious

If you are 'hating life' for this^ then I assure you, you've seen nothing in life bro!

Imagine what it must have been like for the Sahabah in the valley of Shi'ab Abi Talib, thank Allah SWT you have your parents by your side for emotional and financial support until you get a job, you aren't dying of hunger, you haven't tied stones to your stomach like the Prophet pbuh and Sahabah ra did.

A close relative of mine lost his job around the 2000 dot com crash, spent the next 4 years at home, he was married too, imagine what he must have gone through...but today he is rolling in millions #tawakkal
#taqdeer

**pluto** · 19-03-2012, 05:40 PM

Originally Posted by nameuser

very inspiring post for OP..

about time he let the feeling go, and change his username.

Instead, may Allah SWT grant us that kind of distress when we leave our namaz, when our family members, relatives / neighbours don't fulfill their obligations towards Allah SWT. amen.

**faizol** · 19-03-2012, 05:47 PM

,

there's so much hikmah in why the Muslims must love his Muslim brothers and sisters for the sake of Allah

. Go out and try to help other people as much as possible, and

you'll find that by helping other people you're actually helping yourself. And hopefully along the way, you'll find the virtue of living this life only for the sake of Allah

.

**amr123** · 19-03-2012, 05:49 PM

Originally Posted by pluto

If you are 'hating life' for this^ then I assure you, you've seen nothing in life bro!

Imagine what it must have been like for the Sahabah in the valley of Shi'ab Abi Talib, thank Allah SWT you have your parents by your side for emotional and financial support until you get a job, you aren't dying of hunger, you haven't tied stones to your stomach like the Prophet pbuh and Sahabah ra did.

I too agree, with you maan. We tend to overreact to our issues. Its our fault since we do are too attached to this Dunya.

I would request my bro hatelife to watch the following video,

it will help him understand and cope up with his situation.

Depression vs Contentment : Sheikh Sulaiman Moola

I have forwarded to an important point:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uelqRK5Z4i8#t=17m16s

To watch from the beginning of the video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uelqRK5Z4i8

**munawwarah** · 19-03-2012, 06:09 PM

Bismihi Ta’ala

Life is a bounty from Allah Ta’ala. And life with Imaan is priceless, priceless, priceless.
Appreciate the bounty of life.

You should change your username because it clearly indicates ingratitude to Allah Ta’ala.

Allah Ta’ala mentions in the Qur`aan Shareef that if you are grateful, He will increase His favours, and if you are ungrateful, then His punishment is severe.

Appreciate life.
Use it to connect with Allah Ta’ala. Spend it in Pleasing Allah.

The One who created the heart; The One who controls the heart, will then put happiness in your heart.

My Shaykh (RA) once said : LIVE AS A MUSLIM. DIE AS A MUSLIM

May Allah Ta'ala make us from amongst those who are sincerely grateful.