How to get over our obsessions of things/people?
Well just imagine the Day of Judgement. WHO will help us on the day of judgement? WHAT worldy thing will help us on the day of judgement?
The people we love won't even act as if they know us. Our own mothers will not even care for us on that day. In our whole life (including hereafter) the Day of Judgement is the DAY we in need of help the most. Because that day will decide our future for eternity. One that day WHO has the power to help except Allah the Almighty and ones he grants intercession. WHO else? As for things, WHAT worldy thing will help us on the day of judgement? Well the Quran will and oh it is definitely worthy of being obsessed with. Our Sadaqa will and it is indeed worthy of being obsessed with.