What's the harm?

[aliyaa]

assalam u alykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh!

when we were kinds everything was " neat" but as we grow even neat things become fitlhy..

there are countries where the ones who dont do haraam ger mocked.. (Astaghfitrullah) and here in this muslim country the ones who dont talk about " things" get mocked..

when i step i used to avoid all sorta adult talks.. because i hated that.. and people used to talk talk about them.. their main topic was marriage.. and so..

I prayed to Allah and he gave me honour..


in tenth grade.. they accepted the fact that i dont like such things..

so i want to know that i dont like to talk about marriage and business but... why shouldnt we talk about such things? it has become very common.. they laugh on stupid things..

JazakAllah

[Abdul1234]

assalam u alykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh!

when we were kinds everything was " neat" but as we grow even neat things become fitlhy..

there are countries where the ones who dont do haraam ger mocked.. (Astaghfitrullah) and here in this muslim country the ones who dont talk about " things" get mocked..

when i step i used to avoid all sorta adult talks.. because i hated that.. and people used to talk talk about them.. their main topic was marriage.. and so..

I prayed to Allah and he gave me honour..


in tenth grade.. they accepted the fact that i dont like such things..

so i want to know that i dont like to talk about marriage and business but... why shouldnt we talk about such things? it has become very common.. they laugh on stupid things..

JazakAllah

maybe it depends how you talk about things and why you are talking about them?

if you look in the hadeeth and seerah there were discussions between the Prophet (saws) and Ali (raa) etc on some very personal questions etc

but if its titillation (speaking about inappropriate things out of fascination or because it excites you), gossip, gheeba and talk that will encourage immoral behaviour then obviously that should be avoided, yes?

[aliyaa]

maybe it depends how you talk about things and why you are talking about them?

if you look in the hadeeth and seerah there were discussions between the Prophet (saws) and Ali (raa) etc on some very personal questions etc

but if its titillation (speaking about inappropriate things out of fascination or because it excites you), gossip, gheeba and talk that will encourage immoral behaviour then obviously that should be avoided, yes?

they talk just to feel "good" bot the thinhs.. and when you talk about some fatwaa about such things... they say its yuck.. and what they say is just for fun..