Title explains it all...Why "sex" is SUCH a big taboo in Islam? People can't even discuss this topic with "elders" ... Muslims behave as if their sons and specially their daughters don't have feelings or hormones. EVERYONE of us has some body needs or desires. Sexual depression cause frustration,tensions and intolerance in the society and that is what we see in many Muslim societies.'Sexual tension' MUST be relieved and body should be health. Too much sexual repression can have devastating effects.How many cases we have seen in countries like Pakistan where people raped young girls , had sex with deadbodies etc? Sexual repression effects your psychology. If God didn't want us to do sex then why he made our body as such? In today's age,we can't afford to marry our children at the age of 14/15 ....Muslim societies have alot of 'out-of-marriage' sex and we all know it but no one is even ready to talk on this issue. What halal alternatives we can provide to Muslim youths?
How about having Nikkah at an early age (16/17) but girl should keep in living in her parent house? Just like people here in USA have "Girl Friend/Boy friend" relationships.This would be a halal way of doing that.Also encourage and educate your teens about sex and tell them not to have kids UNTIL they can support them? As teens are often emotional , expect more 'divorces' than normal is such cases..societies should become more 'acceptable' for divorces and Muslim men should not look down upon divorced girl.. As a young guy living in the West that have friends in Pakistan too..I can tell u this..This IS a SERIOUS social problem..not only for the Muslims in the West but also Muslim teenagers/youngsters living all over the world.I myself have some very noble girl friends (not girlfriends) who didn't even know about "sex" when they were tricked into having sex . . .
Also , please be practical and don't post things like "fast as our prophet said" ...or keep your gaze down etc.. I'm not talking like that...one can not fast all his life.. or keep his gaze down...interaction with females is inevitable...what are practical solutions of this?