i hv been engaged to the person of my choice Alhamdo Lillah. After huge problems n troubles posed by the person's family, the engagement somehow took place. his family never never wanted me as their daughter in law. after much struggle n efforts our engagemnt took place.
Nao the prob is that my wud-be-in laws are trying to avoid the marriage by all means. they donot maintain any kind of contact wid my family, nor do they ever visit us. whenever my parents call them to decide abt the wedding date n all they jst day yes we vil come this week , yes we vil come next week....but they never come!! they dont come at allllll.
me and my fiance have had terrible fights on this issue whenever i complain to him abt his family's attitude. he jst cant listen anythng agaist them n so i hv stopped complaining. instead nao i explain him very nicely about the problems n issues that his family is creating....but he has a somewhat blind trust on them. he is like u donot try to undrtsnd them, they r very much willing for u, they want us to get married, but thr r othr issues lyk finances getting short n all. THE FACT IS THR R NO ISSUES....I KNOWWWW. he is all the tym being fooled up by his parents!!
uski family (mom dad, basically) usay itnaa zada brain wash krtay hain, itna zada bewqoof bnatay hain kay i dun hv words!! nao he is like; larki walon ko contact rakhna chahaye larkay waalo se, mere dad kehtay hain ye....
n my fiance has also made me make calls to his parents to make dem happy....whereas his parents didnt even call at the time when my father was in hospital admitted n thr ws little hope....last stage of TB....he recovered, but those ppl didnt even bother to make a single ph call. my fiance says haan un ne ghalti ki ph na kr k. bas dats it n den he forgets.
dont ask me to leave him....i luv him truly n cant imagine lyf widout him.
plx plx plx tell me some duaa for either to turn my in laws' hearts wid love for me and they give/take marriage date soon OR some duaa to turn my fiance in my favor against his family as i knw they r doing wrong. tell me some duaa or anythng to get his favors n supports against in laws. i m v much worried