if husband cheats by showing fake divorce

[muslimah2]

scholars say, he has done something very bad and decision lies in him, if he wants to erase off his sins or keep going on like this.
i think taking a divorce should be due on his ex.wife because i didnt hurt her but now she is hurting me.
and perhaps, this is what his parent and ex want. so what do i gain in all this, just lose it and leave.

[mercyofAllah]

scholars say, he has done something very bad and decision lies in him, if he wants to erase off his sins or keep going on like this.
i think taking a divorce should be due on his ex.wife because i didnt hurt her but now she is hurting me.
and perhaps, this is what his parent and ex want. so what do i gain in all this, just lose it and leave.

As far as him, Allah SWT is the most Just. No one will lose for Allah SWT will compensate for the oppression one goes through. I know these sort of trials can be really tough. Very difficult to imagine what you are going through. Let Allah SWT help you. Ameen
So you are ok to live with him if he divorces his ex wife?

[Jsmith]

scholars say, he has done something very bad and decision lies in him, if he wants to erase off his sins or keep going on like this.
i think taking a divorce should be due on his ex.wife because i didnt hurt her but now she is hurting me.
and perhaps, this is what his parent and ex want. so what do i gain in all this, just lose it and leave.

Hi,

There are some good points to remember here.

Never think, anyone can hurt you. You will be hurt only to the extent which Allah (swt) has already decreed for you. Also, when someone hurts you, he/she actually hurts himself/herself.

Suppose, person A abuses person B, but in reality person B has abused himself not B because on Day of Judgment, all these abuses will become gifts for A but sins for B.

Conclusion:

In reality, no one can hurt others except they hurt their ownselves. This the Glory and Mercy of Allah (swt) that He (swt) has not given anyone any right or power to hurt others except to their ownselves.

Quranic Supplication:

LA ILAHA ILLA ANTA SUBHANAKA INNI KUNTU MINAZ ZALIMEEN

“None has the right to be worshipped but You (O Allah), Glorified (and Exalted) are You (above all that (evil) they associate with You). Truly, I have been of the wrong-doers."

Quran 21:87