having a crush on someone.. can she be my wife?

[dr76]

P:137-138

(interpretation)

Then Allah will say ‘ present before my bondsmen those objects which remained far beyond the reach of even their desires.. and the thoughts of which never crossed their hearts ’
and others would also remind them of more.. till their desires would be empty.. such that whatever their hearts yearned for shall be presented to them..

Also there shall be horses.. and on every four caparisoned horses would rest a throne of Ruby.. that shall be crowned by a dome made of pure gold.. beneath which shall be layed beddings of jannah..

that under every dome shall be two young damsels with wide beutiful eyes.. they both shall be adorned by two garments of jannah.. which shall not be deprived of any colour of jannah..

Its fragrance emitted would be such that each note of every perfume shall be present…
The glitter of their faces shall spread through the thickness of the domes.. such that those viewing would feel as if they are out in the open..

Their marrow shall be visible through shanks as if a white thread passed through red Ruby…
So when the dweller of jannah would approach her she would present salaam ..kiss him..and take him in embrace.. and shall say..’By Allah..! we had never imagined that Allah had created men like you..’
Thereafter Allah shall command the angels.. and these angels would take them in rows.. moving towards their respective stations awarded by their merciful lord..”

(Note: at the end of the translation of Tafsir Ibn kathir it is mentioned: This narration is Mursal, weak, and Ghareeb. In the best possible case, it is a saying of one of our predecessors, and then one of the narrators erred and ascribed it to the Prophet when it cannot correctly be ascribed to him . And Allah & knows best.)

contd later

wa assalam..

[Jinn]

Akhii doctor

[Raja.Pakistani]

I'm curious to know this.. and I feel awkward asking this to a imam or scholar.. If you like a girl on earth.. who is a Christian.. and you really like her.. But because you fear God and you choose not 2 speak 2 her.. because you believe in Oneness of Allah.. and believe in the Divine Messengers of God from Abraham , to Moses, and Jesus and Muahmmad (Peace be upon them all) ... and no matter what you wont change that belief for any one.. and also you never tell the girl that u like her.. so you avoid her and stay away from her.. but you really like her.. and respect her.. and want her to be happy no matter what.. can she be my wife in Akirah (after life)? I mean if a person who does good deeds and does what he is supposed to.. I mean is this possible.. I am curious to know.. :/

I am actually surprised when people ask such questions which seem weird to me or my Aqal

How old are you?

and how you are sure that you both will end up in same place(hell or heaven) in afterlife? I mean here you dont want to have her because she don't believe in oneness of Allah but you wish to keep her in Akhira no matter what she does/believe in here lol

[Nomadic]

A believing women is better than a beautiful mushrik and kaffir. It is illadvised to persue anyone like this. What seems ok now may not be so in the future. It endangers ones iman and is impossible to discount the effect of ones spouse. Most muslim men just as their non muslim male are weak minded in general when their wives are concerned. It would be better for you to link with a shaikh specialized in spirituality. What seems important now will soon be viewed as a passing phase.
Allahualam